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nilsneil

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my mom, my brother and the baby - 8/21/2008 3:40 PM ( #1 )
hi everybody.
my mom got problems during her last pregnancy with my brother as her partner died when she was with child. in fact of that the baby came too early. my mom neraly lost her life in that night and they fought hard to save her life.
in a widow-group she met someone who promised her to help  and protect her. i know that my mom was very hesitating but  somehow sometime he got her trust . (now i know, this wasn´t the first time, he did something like that and was succesful with his "trip"). anyway they´ve had a pretty good time but then my little brother died too, as he was in his seventh month. my mom was so terribly hurted and she was very thankful that this man was on her side . time passed and  in the moment he noticed, that she is pregnant from him, he strictly turned away.
now my mom is alone with her grief for my brother and her sorrows for the new baby who´ll come. i´m in london at this time for an exchange-pupil.
i know, that she is very alone and very, very carefully with her contacts. in case of her experiences she has big problems to trust someone. i´m in sorrow and worry for her and my little sibling who is coming.
it would be nice, if you would light a candle for her, my brother or the new baby or maybe all of them. the group is called .hope
thank you all!
greetings from Nils
Hildegard

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 8/21/2008 5:14 PM ( #2 )
Welcome to the forum, Nils! Thank you for sharing your mother's heart-breaking story with us. You are very kind in supporting her and asking for candles for her. This shows that you have a very big, generous heart.
I'll be glad to keep your mother and all your family in my prayers. I'll light a candle for her in your group. Do you think she would be able to join the forum to get support from many kind-hearted people?

Wishing you everything good,
Edda
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celtic star

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 8/22/2008 4:46 AM ( #3 )
Nils, adding my prayers for you, your mum and family.
Glenys x
mamaluvskids

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 8/22/2008 3:23 PM ( #4 )
My heart goes out to you, your mom and the rest of your family. Your mom sure has been through alot. Please let her know that we will pray for her and that she is welcome to come and share in this forum. This might be the best thing for her. Ya'll will find that there are alot of people who are ready to listen in this forum. Everybody needs someone to talk to sometime. Please know ya'll are in our thoughts. We hope also that her pregnacy will be successful with no complications and that your mom will stay healthy and find the answers she needs.
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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 8/22/2008 5:55 PM ( #5 )
Dear Nils,
I add my prayers for your Mum and will certainly light a candle.
 
Jude
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kriann

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 8/23/2008 8:43 AM ( #6 )
nils, i will also say prayers and light a candle for your mom, your brothers.

much love,
kriann
kitonthemoon

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 8/25/2008 12:12 PM ( #7 )
Hi, Nils........
 
My heart aches for how much your mom has suffered.  I pray that she continues to find strength to carry and care for her soon-to-be new born.  The arrival of a new life is a new begining...may she finds comfort in the little bundle of miracle she will deliver.     Mom is very blessed to have a caring daughter like you.   God bless.
 
Jazzie
 
on my way to light the candle.
nilsneil

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 8/31/2008 6:24 PM ( #8 )
thank you all very very much!
Hildegard

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 8/31/2008 9:38 PM ( #9 )
You are very welcome, Nils!  Do let us know how you and your mother are doing. We will also be reminded to keep your candle group going! How much longer will you be in London?
 
Wishing you everything good,
Much love,
Edda
Peace and joy!
J1937

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 9/1/2008 1:27 AM ( #10 )
Dear Nils,

I will light a candle and add my prayer for your Mother, your Brother, the Baby and You!

Much love,
Juliana
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Imenuff

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 9/1/2008 9:11 AM ( #11 )
Dear Nils, prayers go out to your Mother, your Brother, the new little one and to you. Hopefully, you are able through computer/phone, etc to keep in regular contact with your Mom and that she has family close to her who can support her. Please continue to let us know how she, the little one and you are doing.
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Vicky

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RE: my mom, my brother and the baby - 9/17/2008 9:34 PM ( #12 )
Dear Nils, My heart goes out to you and your family. Your mother has suffered much more than most people have in a lifetime. She did raise a wonderful and caring child in you, Nils. She has so much to be thankful for. It must be very hard for you to be away from your Mother at this time. We will all pray for her and your new sibling. God Bless you.
With Hope each of us can have a life with Peace, Faith and Love.

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