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buttington

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/25/2009 1:48 PM ( #201 )

My heart goes out to all of you here who have lost a child....and that each day brings you love and light as all of the angels prepare a way for you to heal.

 
I pray for this too. Dear Diane and Donna, thank you for such heartfelt posts.
 
Love, Jude
Love is the only way
sandra67

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/25/2009 4:44 PM ( #202 )
Dear Ladies I am sure your caring words will help so many people in their
 
daily struggles. I also would also like to say thank you.
 
Love and healing  to all,Sandraxxxx
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/26/2009 9:15 AM ( #203 )
Dear Dale . . .
My heart is broken again
as I read your post,
and the posts of all those who came after . . .
all so wise and so caring.
Welcome dear one . . .
you are in the right place.
As all have said,
you are forever changed
and will never be the same,
but in the end you can rise up strong and whole
as you open your sorrowful heart to the gift of healing.
It has taken me 39 years,
and I still weep inside
when I see spring's new calves,
as that is the time my own son died . . .
but he has blessed me with more than I could ever repay
with love . . .
sparrow
everything counts...
bm

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/26/2009 9:59 AM ( #204 )
I am so grateful to all of you , my dear friends , for all your warm words and kind understanding,
for being here with me through the dark time  in my "new normal"...
 
That is why we all like to call this safe place

 
                  
 
                  ~with love to all~
                    Buba,Goran's mom
 
_____________________________

"What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments,
but what is woven into the lives of others." Pericles
bm

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/27/2009 9:30 AM ( #205 )
This is a picture of heart I made last year for my Goran,with love:
(I made this heart by myself  with  dried tiny roses and some other flowers)


P.S. photobucket made me crazy while I tried to post it here: I hope this action will be successful!

with love to all,
Buba,Goran's mom
 

 
 
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/27/2009 11:01 AM ( #206 )
Dear Buba,
 
Thank you for sharing this work of love with us! It is beautifully made!
 
You are in my thoughts and in my heart,
Much love,
Edda
Peace and joy!
buttington

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/27/2009 2:11 PM ( #207 )
Dear Buba,
I love the heart you made. It reminds me of a 'tree of life' sculpture I made years ago out of twisted twigs decorated with sequins, beads, flowers and other oddments. It is still hung up in my room.
If and when I ever manage to post any pictures I will try and post it here.
 
Love, Jude
Love is the only way
lilsparrow

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/27/2009 3:26 PM ( #208 )
Dear Buba . . .
Your heart wreath is so lovely . . .
as Edda has said, a true 'work of love'!
Thank you for sharing it with us
with love . . .
sparrow
everything counts...
sandra67

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/27/2009 3:40 PM ( #209 )
Dear Buba,
 
The ladies are right it's so beautiful and precious..you clever girl you!
 
I am sure Goran  smiled as much as we did seeing it .
 
Buba can I put my order's in you know me I am shy so I will only
 
ask for three.
 
It's so nice to see you back Buba it really is.
 
Love and lots of tea with lemon of course,Sandraxxxx
 
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/27/2009 10:10 PM ( #210 )
Hi Buba,
 
I love your wreath, its beautiful!
 
Dale and Donna I will light a candle for you in the All group too.
 
May all the blessings and healings be recieved by all of you here.
 
Peace, Love and Joy,
Diane
Grateful to be here!
What a gift and connection builder!
Love and Gratitude,
Love who You Are
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/28/2009 1:48 AM ( #211 )

This is a picture of heart I made last year for my Goran,with love:

ORIGINAL: bm

This is a picture of heart I made last year for my Goran,with love:
(I made this heart by myself  with  dried tiny roses and some other flowers)


P.S. photobucket made me crazy while I tried to post it here: I hope this action will be successful!

with love to all,
Buba,Goran's mom


 
 
WOW How Beautiful is that and made with loving hands, just like you did when you made his lunch for school, baked cookies, sewed a patch on his jeans.  May I call you Martha, as in Martha Stewart. 
 
My Heart goes out to you  Please click the link
 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fiy9YB1coMw
 
ONE DAY, SOME DAY,  
WLAP
 
sandra67

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 3/30/2009 5:31 PM ( #212 )
Dearest Xanadue,
 
Only tonight was I listening to that song...It's such a small world
 
really in many ways ♥♥
 
 
My Heart Will Go On lyrics

Every night in my dreams
I see you, I feel you
That is how I know you go on

Far across the distance
And spaces between us
You have come to show you go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And you're here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

Love can touch us one time
And last for a lifetime
And never let go till we're gone

Love was when I loved you
One true time I hold to
In my life we'll always go on

Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more you open the door
And you're here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

You're here, there's nothing I fear
And I know that my heart will go on
We'll stay forever this way
You are safe in my heart
And my heart will go on and on

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

bm

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 5/27/2009 8:26 AM ( #213 )
 
My heart is so heavy,
and I am so sad...
Third anniversary
is coming so close...
All memories of those
hardest days of my life
are remoting in my mind
night and day, making me so sad...
It is still so,so hard without you my son...
 
 
      
 
  
         ~ with love forever ~
             your mom 
"What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments,
but what is woven into the lives of others."
Pericles
Hildegard

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 5/27/2009 8:31 AM ( #214 )
Dearest Buba,
 
My heart goes out to you at this difficult time! Know that we are with you and want to hold you! Words are of little comfort at times like this.
 
I keep you in my heart and prayers,
Much love and warm  hugs,
Edda
Peace and joy!
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 5/27/2009 9:33 AM ( #215 )
Deepest prayers from my heart for you
dear, dear Buba . . .
no words . . .
no words
only love . . .

everything counts...
buttington

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 5/27/2009 10:02 AM ( #216 )
Dearest Buba,
My heart is with you too, and my arms are hugging you.
 
Bless you,
Prayers and much Love,
Jude
Love is the only way
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Re:It is so hard without my son - 5/27/2009 2:02 PM ( #217 )
Buba,
I am thinking of you with love.  Yes, as others have said, no words can really comfort.  Just hugs and love.  I send you both. 
I am going to light a candle.  Sending love to you, liliwings
No need to spend endless hours, days, weeks searching for the rainbow.  Open your heart and your eyes to see and know you are the rainbow you seek.  Rejoyce in the beauty of the co-creation of you.
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Re:It is so hard without my son - 5/27/2009 2:51 PM ( #218 )
Dearest Buba,

Feel my arms round you and my heart close to yours.

LOVE IS SO MUCH STRONGER THAN DEATH.

Warm Hugs,
Juliana
"Speak Peace in a World of Conflict" (M.B.Rosenberg)
bm

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 5/27/2009 3:08 PM ( #219 )
                            
          Edda,Sparow,Jude,Liliwings and Juliana  
 
                           ~Buba,Goran's mom~
sandra67

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 5/27/2009 4:25 PM ( #220 )

My heart is so heavy, and I am so sad... Third anniversary is coming so close... All memories of those hardest days of my life are remoting in my mind night and day, making me so sad... It is still so,so hard without you my son...

 
My Dear dear Buba
 
 
My heart is with you right now as well
I am sure every  detail of that day has come to mind
and I am sure you have dreaded this day for months
I wish I could hold you now and hug you Buba I really do
Of course it's hard without your child and your heart breaks
for the loss of Mother and child relationship that you so badly need
 
Buba your precious Goran lived life to the full
and in his honour this day could be a way of honouring this
I am not trying to stop you mouring Buba not at all
as grief will be with us all a life time...
I just want to try and help but I am not sure I can my friend
 
You have been so close to me Buba since I met you
you make me smile when I feel so low
what a precious gift your boy has given to me
for this I am forever grateful
 
 

 
Holding you tight right now Buba and wishing I could
carry your pain right now..
 
Love you Buba with all of my
 
Sandraxxxxxxxxxx
 
 
 
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

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