It is so hard without my son

Dear Lovewho.u.r.
 
thank you for your kind words and lighting a candle. It means more to me than I can express in words.
 
You are probably new here (like me) or you just have not posted that much yet, so I wanted to welcome you and I hope you will post more because I liked what you have to say. The comforting thoughts to Buba were very nice. And I am sorry for your painful loss of your sister and your father.
 
thanks again for your message.
 
Love Karen

integrity is shown when no one is looking

Hi Karen,
 
Thanks! I am new here! I am in "awe" of the intention of this site! It really is a wonderful thing to do for this world. I just can't explain it entirely. Helping people to connect is so beautiful to me. Thanks again, I'll try to do just that!

Grateful to be here!
What a gift and connection builder!
Love and Gratitude,
Love who You Are

On 28 th November 1981. my son Goran was born.I remember it as it was yesterday-cold,dark night,the first snow was falling...But it was the happiest day in my life.Tomorrow he`ll be 27.But instead of candles on birthday cake I will light a candle in his memory...Very hard thing for me. And on 30 th November it will be 2 and a half year that we lost him...Very painfull and still unbelievable...
If you like to light a candle for my son`s birthday the group is GORAN.
 
With regards,
Buba,Goran`s mom

Dearest Buba,
I will not only light a candle here for you and Goran, but I have started a candle in my home, which I dedicate to all who come here and for those who they ask prayers and candles for, so Goran and you and your family will be included in the candle tonight and tomorrow, and also for the 30th November.
 
My heart goes out to you, dear Buba. Your memory of his birth, like that of all mothers, is so clear. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and will be with you over the next few days.
 
Much Love and warm hugs, Jude

Love is the only way

Dear Buba,
 
My heart goes out to you as you observe these days of remembrance with so much pain in your heart. I will continue lighting candles for Goran to remember the gift he was and still is to you, and for you that you may find peace.
 
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

Dear Buba, I am thinking of you and will light a candle for you and for your son. Warm hugs
Gina and Jackory

Thank you dear Jude,Edda and Gina for your kind words and thoughts about us,and for all your candles.
 
with love,
 
Buba,Goran`s mom

Dear Buba . . .
I, like the others will keep a prayer for Goran, and for you and your surviving family throughout the next few days especially. "Anniversaries" like this are so hard, I know.
So I send you all the warmth and love that I can
so that you will know that you are not alone . . .
with much love . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

Thank you dear Spparow for your kind words and candles.
Please take good care of yourself to get better,all jobs that you need to do will not fly away,they will wait for you!
So,first get better !
 
With regards,
 
Buba,Goran`s mom

Dear Buba,

I am going to light a candle for you and your dear son Goran. You are so right: we mothers remember the day our children were born as if it were yesterday. May you be able to focus on everything your son was and still is to you, remembering all the good he brought into your life.

Love and Peace,
Juliana
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Speak Peace in a World of Conflict

BUBA, THINKING OF YOU, YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR SON. I KNOW THAT YOU HAVE GOT TO MISS HIM SO VERY MUCH. I CAN'T SAY THAT I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BUT I KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO LOOSE A CHILD. I LOST  BABIES TO MISCARRIAGES AND I KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO MISS THEM. PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. I HAVE LIT A CANDLE FOR YOU AND YOUR SON...

Hi Buba,
 
I am so sorry. Its so hard at these times for you. I know for me its in October when my sister past away. This year was the 30th year anniversary. My brother-in-law recently called me up and asked all kinds of questions about what happened that tragic night. It is all so hard to deal with our loss. He is going to start to write about her to her children whom he never spoke to about her. Which is a really good thing for him to do. I am glad that he is doing that. I will light a candle for you!
 
Love and light,
Diane

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What a gift and connection builder!
Love and Gratitude,
Love who You Are

Dear Juliana,Joya and Diane thank you from my heart for your compassion words and for candles.
Diane I am so sorry for your loss .I know how it is hard to lost dear and close person.I have a younger sister
and I can imagine how it will be hard to lose her.
 
With love and regards to all
Buba,Goran`s mom

Dear Buba . . .
Thank you so much for your kind words. Yes, I am indeed improving and able to go about my work thanks to antibiotics~
Sometimes I wish my jobs would "fly away"
again Buba, thank you for your thoughtfulness.
Kindness means so much, doesn't it?
And it costs so little . . .
with love . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

Dear Buba,
 
Thank you for your kind words!
 
You are always in my prayers,
Diane

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What a gift and connection builder!
Love and Gratitude,
Love who You Are

Dear bm,
 
I read it just now and I lit a candle for your sone, sorry I´m too late...
but it comes from my heart,
 
love, Isabella

If you want to know something about someone, listen to your heart.

Dear Isabella,
you are not late, I am thankfull for your candle and kind words.
 
with regards to you,
Buba,Goran`s mom

Dear bm,
 
I read your story about the apple, and I think, that my daughter gave me advises too, or that she is near me.
Sometimes I think, that I am mad when I´m sitting in my room, reading, and suddenly, I have a warm feeling around me. the first time I was surprised and I walked to the radiator, because it was in winter, and I saw, that it wasn´t on. But when I came back to my couch it was still warm around me.
Maybe, I had special good day and wasn´t so depressed, but my first intention was to think at her, and I was really lucky for some hours. and this happend on other days too...
 
maybe..
love, I.
 
 

If you want to know something about someone, listen to your heart.

Dear Isabella,
 
I am SURE that was your daughter. Love does not die, and her love is there always to warm you.
 
Jude

Love is the only way

Dear Isabella,
I , as Jude, DO believe that it was your daughter ! I WANT TO BELIEVE that my son is somewhere very nearby,but we can not come in contact,so he is trying to give me SIGNS and sometimes I recognize it for sure.
Don`t think that you are mad, bonds between mother and the child never can be broken,because that bond is LOVE.
When my son was in hospital,the second night after brain surgery,he came into my dream:I saw him standing on the room`s door and he told me:"Mom,I have to go away." I wake up that very moment,terrified,and I knew what is going to happen with him...It was very scary but very heart-breaking too,as I believe that he came to say goodbye to me...Next morning , doctor said to us that during last night my son fell into deep coma...They let me be with him and I was talking to him to be strong and wake up,while I was talking I saw on the monitor that his heart was beating faster and when I don`t talk it was beating slower.I am sure that he could hear me.Unfortunatelly,he did not wake up...Today is very sad day for me,it is 2-1/2 years that he is gone...
 
Love to all kind people at this site,
Buba,Goran`s mom