Jude ,
 
I always have room for your hugs bless you Jude so much.
 
Jude you are right I tried to work this out and I guess we are not our pain as our pain leaves us at times.
 
Hugs back,Sandraxxxx
 

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

My dear Sandra . . .
Yes indeed, I am a little older than you . . .
homing in on 60 soon . . .   
I think, but am not sure that you mentioned you were 50?
I am so happy that you are feeling better . . .
yes, I do understand about the dark days.
Eban has changed me, but I do not regret and am not sad for this.
I am actually grateful . . . not that he died,
but that he was gifted to me for the time that I had,
and through his death I have learned many things
that I might not otherwise have learned.
But Jude has said it as well as I can,
that "we are not our pain".
peace in your heart and love for you . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

Ooops . . . so sorry Sandra . . .
It didn't seem like you were 50, but I thought you mentioned it in an early post . . . it must have been someone else.
Oh dear . . . someone sent me a pm to tell me, probably so I could run back here and edit my post, but I didn't make it in time .
Is my face red!
with love . . .
sparrow
ps. I'll be 60 30th of January. I was a 'Sunday's child' . It's funny . . . until the last year or two, I always felt like a 'Thursday's child'--full of woe   

everything counts... ♥

Sandra...........NEVER GROW UP!  That's half the trouble with us humans, we think we have to be grown up.
 
Sparrow, I am a Sunday's child too! Sandra is right, it is Wednesday's child full of woe.
 

Love is the only way

Hi girls,

Who seems like 50? I do  ! Exactly 52 ! 40,50, 60 ... who cares about years?[sm=kiss.gif][sm=rolleyes.gif]
It is important that we are still here and not "grown up", and we care about each others!

Love and blessings to all of you !

Buba,Goran's mom

Ah yes, dear ones . . .
it is Wednesday's child . . .
now I am full of woe . . .
I also have far to go too .
Now it is I who is puzzled . . . I don't know why you didn't seem '50'...
I think because your grief was more recent,
and that seemed odd if you were 50, if that makes any sense,
but like Jude says, "NEVER GROW UP" .
Yes Buba . . . after all is said and done
what is age but a number!
Thank you all for starting my day off with smiles . . .
I think the laughter will come when I get to the 'humor' thread.
with much love . . .
sparrow

Dearest Buba,
    This grateful Mother will pray for you through such awful grief as I don't want to ever imagine. That this happened to you, sears my heart. I'll pray for G-d's Grace in your life so that your son will live on through you. Love, BarbJean

Thank you dear BarbJean for your compassion and kind words.
For me as a mother,this was unthinkable grief and I never thought it would happen to me.But it happened and now I am struggled with it every minute of every day of my life ( 2 years 7 months and 9 days)- still unbelievable that my son is gone,it seems as real night mair waiting to wake up ...But there are some short moments when I became awared that it IS truth; those are so painful moments like that somebody hits me right into my heart with a knife...Then , I just want to die...But I have my other son and I know that he needs me and I must live for him , and my husband ,too.They are both in the same pain and grief as me,and we need each other to move on and to keep loving memories which we have with our Goran.

With regards,
Buba,Goran's mom

Love and Hugs to you dear Buba.
 
Jude

Love is the only way

Dearest Buba
 
Love to you always,I wish I could carry your pain I really do.
 
Buba, Goran would not wish you to suffer but sadly grief is so powerful
 
to cope at times it really is.
 
Buba I feel like you at times but what keeps me going is knowing that our children fought so hard to
 
stay on earth so if only for their memory alone we must stay here until they call us home.
 
Take care Buba,Love Sandraxxx

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

Dear Jude and Sandra,
thanks for love,hugs and compassion.It means a lot to me.
 
With regards from my snowy town,
Buba,Goran's mom
 
 

Dear Buba
 
Love to you and your snowy town! Sorry that I smiled in your thread  sorry
 
Sandraxx

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

Welcome to the forum, BarbJean!
 
Thank you for your compassion! I hope you will visit often and share with us your experience and wisdom!
 
With love and every good wish,
Edda

Peace and joy!

Oh Sandra, you do not have to be sorry.As Sparrow once said "...relief from grieving is not release from love...".
My Goran was allways ready for jokes and laughter,I believe he will understand.
 
Hello dear Edda,how are you and Leon doing? Do you have a snowy winter?
 
Regards to all ladies,no matter how old they are,
Buba,Goran's mom

Dear Buba,
 
Thank you for asking! We are having quite a bit of snow. More is predicted starting tonight and lasting 24 hours! I get plenty of exercise shoveling! We also have had some very frigid days, down to
- 20 degrees C. This is wide open prairie land where temperatures can change within hours. Lake Michigan does provide moderation along its shore depending on how the wind blows.
This weather is hard on Leon since he can't get out with his electric scooter when there is ice and snow on the sidewalks. Otherwise we are doing pretty well!
 
I think of you often!
 
You are in my heart and prayers,
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

Dear Buba in her snowy town
from sparrow in her snowy town  . . .
Thank you Edda, for sending us your snow & zero temperatures .
Bless your kind and tender heart.
I too, think Goran is smiling at all of us silly "girls" . . .
(no offence to you men)

Welcome BarbJean, to the forum.
I hope that you will return and share your story
with love . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

Dear Buba,
 
Just to say I am thinking of you today ,just like I do everyday.
 
Love and warmth on this chilly day,Sandraxxx

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

Dear Sandra,
I can not believe this,while you were writing this message,in the same time I wrote you a PM!
Thank you for your thoughts,I was thinking of you and your trip and felt relief when I saw your thread yesterday.
With love and hugs,
Buba,Goran's mom

My Dear Buba
 
Yes our threads crossed that's our wonderful boys you see they know how to cheer us up.
 
I hope my explantion helped all though I would confuse the confusedoh sorry I don't mean
 
your confused ,well I am now and that's my own doing.
 
Thank you for your kind words Buba and once again sorry for not thinking
 
Lots of love and warm wishes ,Sandraxx

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

Sandra,my friend,
I tried to send you second PM ,but your memory is full.Just to let you know,you must make room for new messages.
I replied you in your thread My trip,and I was conserned why you did not mention me in your answer,so I worried that you are maybe hurt by me somehow,and I conected that with deleted message in my thread...!!!
But our Angels up in the Heaven saw that,and they help us to come in contact,is not that a miracle!!??
Send you many warm regards from sunny day here in Novi Sad-last week it was real winter with snow and ice,today spring and sunshine,
Buba,Goran's mom