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RE: It is so hard without my son - 1/20/2009 6:50 AM ( #121 )
Hi dear Edda,
what is the wheather like at your windy town?I will sent you a bit of warm sunshine,
Love and hugs
Buba,Goran's mom
 
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 1/20/2009 10:22 AM ( #122 )

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Sandra,my friend,
I tried to send you second PM ,but your memory is full.Just to let you know,you must make room for new messages.
I replied you in your thread My trip,and I was conserned why you did not mention me in your answer,so I worried that you are maybe hurt by me somehow,and I conected that with deleted message in my thread...!!!
But our Angels up in the Heaven saw that,and they help us to come in contact,is not that a miracle!!??
Send you many warm regards from sunny day here in Novi Sad-last week it was real winter with snow and ice,today spring and sunshine,
Buba,Goran's mom

 
Dear Buba,
 
I am so sorry I replied in the other threaddon't ever feel you have to say sorry as thats my job.
 
Buba I hope I did not hurt you but I did reply but lost it in cyber space.
 
I smiled so much as our messages crossed ,great minds hey.Our boys know how to keep us
 
smiling bless them so much...
 
Sorry again Buba next time I will doublle check my posts.
 
Glad it's warmer there than here ,please pass some warmth my way.
 
Love and understanding,Sandraxxxx
 
 
 
 
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/7/2009 2:02 AM ( #123 )
DEAR BUBA ,
I too am so sorry for the loss of your precious child.
and I grieve for the pain that you are feeling. sometimes things beyond our control just happen. It's not fair, I know.

Please do take of yourself and know that we are all here whenever you need to cry, laugh, etc.
i hope u take care and god bless u .
with much love
Nimmi

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/7/2009 7:19 AM ( #124 )
Thank you dear Nimmi for your kind words of compassion.
You are very generous person,when having your own problems,
you are thinking of others.

I have lit a candle for you in the all group.
~with regards~

Buba,Goran's mom
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/7/2009 9:05 AM ( #125 )
dear buba ,
thanks for yr kind words and candles . it means a lot t me .
thank you dear for your prayers for all of us.

His ways are unique. You are blessed dear
May Lord bless you with a very long, happy life
Sai ram
love u
Nimmi

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/14/2009 3:31 PM ( #126 )
Dear Buba,
 
 
Happy Valentine's Day!
 
Bless your heart!
 
Love and light,
Diane
Grateful to be here!
What a gift and connection builder!
Love and Gratitude,
Love who You Are
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/14/2009 4:41 PM ( #127 )
Thank you dear Diane ! I wish you the same!
I am very gratefull that I have found this site.Two years ago I couldn't even imagine that I will smile or feel any kind of joy,again.Meeting many wonderful people here, helped me a lot to go step by step through the painful road called grief.
I think I have crossed a long,long way and there are so many hard steps still before me...
I hope my son Goran will forgive me and understand, that I smile again , here,meeting my forum friends.
For a long time I did not want to smile or even to live without him,and when sometimes I smiled or felt alive again, I felt SO MUCH guilty for that!I thought that he is looking at me and asks me: "Mom,how could you live and smile without me?"
All wonderful friends ,I have met here,helped me through the time and with wise words,to understand my own feelings,and to begin to heal and continue to live,step by step,day by day,month by month...

To everyone of you I am so grateful for that with all my heart  !

~with regards~
Buba,Goran's mom
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/14/2009 4:45 PM ( #128 )
Dear Buba,
We are all very grateful for you too, and for your healing.
 
Goran will be smiling with you.
 
Love, Jude
Love is the only way
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/14/2009 4:52 PM ( #129 )
Thank you dear Jude,
 
I hope he will as he had many friends and he liked to joke and to laugh very often with them...
 
Love to you and all,
Buba,Goran's mom
 
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/14/2009 7:23 PM ( #130 )
Dear Buba,
 
Jude is right we are grateful and so is Goran.Every child wants thier
 
parents to smile,every child.
 
You have come along way Buba and we all have grown from you walking
 
with us.Buba I can never feel your pain or even carry some of it for you.
 
I wish I could as I would do anything  possible to help my freinds,but Buba
 
we all walk with you hand in hand to help you on your dark days.
 
 
 
Bless you so much Buba,I love you lots even though you stole my .
 
Well love is all about forgiving so you can keep it for now Buba.
 
Love to all,Sandraxxxx
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/14/2009 11:25 PM ( #131 )
Dear Buba,
 
I agree with the others that we are happy an honored to have you here! I, too, am convinced that Goran would want you to be smiling and laughing.I think you honor his memory best by living life fully, because that is what he would want for you. You havea such a caring heart, and a wonderful sense of humor. Thank you!
 
Much love,
Edda
Peace and joy!
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/15/2009 11:02 AM ( #132 )
Dear Sandra and Edda,
 
thank you for your kind and caring words!
Sending your way  snowflakes and love !
 
~with regards to all from snowy Novi Sad~
Buba,Goran's mom
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/15/2009 2:12 PM ( #133 )
Dearest Buba with love....
 

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/15/2009 5:10 PM ( #134 )
My Dear Buba,
 
My heart is with you right now it really is...If I could lift your grief from your broken heart I would.
 
Take good care Buba,I hope with all of my heart tomorrow brings you some gentle loving sunshinexxxx
 

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/15/2009 5:17 PM ( #135 )
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/15/2009 5:38 PM ( #136 )
 
         


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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/16/2009 7:12 AM ( #137 )
Dear Buba . . .
I have just now read your post
and all of the beautiful replies you have received.
I can only add my thanks.
It is an honour to share the times with you,
and I feel blessed to be a little part of your journey towards healing.
You know already I think, that this journey also takes you
to an even truer love for Goran,
for he will never leave your heart . . .
and you have told us many times how he loved to laugh.
He would always want for your heart to return to joy
with love for you dear Buba, and gratitude . . .
sparrow
everything counts...
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/16/2009 6:04 PM ( #138 )
 
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/16/2009 6:07 PM ( #139 )
Like it!!!!!!!
 
A cuppa and a piece of chocolate cake please.
Love is the only way
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RE: It is so hard without my son - 2/16/2009 6:11 PM ( #140 )
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