could i ask you all to light a candle for my dad

Dear Brum,

I wanted to let you know I am lifting your Dad still in my prayers and I will say a special prayer on Monday for him. I am sorry to hear about how your sister upsets you and your folks, but I agree with sparrow that it is her problem that she is the way she is, and my hopes are for you to try not to dwell on it too much. People only have power over us if we let them regarding emotional stuff.

Many thoughts are going out to you from this forum of friends, my own included.

take care!

Love Karen

integrity is shown when no one is looking

Peter, thinking of you and your dad. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts. I will go now and light a candle for you and your dad.

DENISE, PLEASE FORGIVE ME AS I MEANT TO PUT YOUR NAME ON THE COMMENT ABOVE THIS ONE AND I PUT YOUR FATHERS.

Thankyou all very much for you thoughts and kind words and of cause your prays
i am truley  thankfull to you all
all today and yeaterday my stomach is in  a twill thinking of monday
thankyou again and may i ask you all to  be thinking of us at 2 30 tommrow  denise ..................................

Dear Denise,
 
I can understand that you have knots in your stomach worrying what news your dad's appointment will bring. I do hope it will be good news. I pray that you have the strength to deal with whatever it is.
Be assured of my prayers. A candle will be burning for your dad!
 
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

Dear Brum,
I have lit a candle for your dad. I hope your dad's hospital appointment brings you all good news.

Grateful to be here!
What a gift and connection builder!
Love and Gratitude,
Love who You Are

Dear Brum, I will light a candle for you and your Dad, I am sure you are helping him y your love and support.x Godlove to both of you
love and light
gina and jackoryx

Hello all
just to let you know how dad got on at the hospital yesterday
it not good news they cant do no more for him and it just a matter of time
i cant belived i am going to lose him
thankyou all for you support and prays denisexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Dearest Denise, I'm so sorry this is such bad news. Losing our parents is sooo hard.
I will continue to light candles for him and for you. I hope you will stay with us here for a little support.
 
I pray that your sister will have a change of heart. Try not to let her upset you. Your love and care for your Dad is the most important thing now.
 
Love never dies.
 
Much Love and Hugs, Jude

Love is the only way

Dear, dear Denise . . .
When my own father's prognosis came I felt such shock. It didn't seem possible that I could lose him. But although I did, he has remained close to me in my heart, has given me his strength and his wisdom.
The body is weak my dear, but love is eternal.
Your gift to him can be your steadfast devotion as he prepares for his journey . . . his gift to you is his love.
I hope you will come back to share in the days ahead.
People here care and will support you in any way we can
with much love to you and your family . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

Dear Denise,
 
I add my sentiments to Sparrow's regarding my dad's end of his time here. I was in shock, too. The stages of death are quite difficult to deal with. It is so hard to let go, but you will find a way to see it through this, and he will NEVER be gone from your heart. I also agree that I hope you  will continue to come here for support and love through this extremely difficult time. Love never ends. Please feel free to share your dark moments with us. We care!
 
Love and Caring and a big Hug to You,
Karen

integrity is shown when no one is looking

Dear Denise,

I join the others in lighting a candle and praying for you and your dear Father. What counts has been said: it´s the Love you feel for each other. And Love is eternal, it never dies!

Wishing you Peace and Strength,
Juliana
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Speak Peace in a World of Conflict

Dear Denise, there is little I can add to what has already been said. I am so very sorry about the sad news. This is a time to make each day count. The journey together will be difficult but can deepen your relationship with your dad. Much can be done so that he does not have to suffer, such as hospice care.
 
Wishing you strength and peace of heart,
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

thankyou all for you very kind thoughts and kind words which mean alot to me thankyou
dad  is staying at home i would not have it any other way
 thankyou all again  i dont want to depreess you all i feel i am puting my prombles on to you
you are all kind pepole just like my dad
denise,,,,,,,,,,,,

Denise, you are not depressing anyone! We all care and want to share this with you. "A problem shared is a problem halved."
At any rate, sharing it does help. Don't stay away. We are here waiting for you,
 
Much Love, Jude

Love is the only way

Thankyou so much judy

Dear Denise, when I mentioned hospice I did not imply that this should be away from home. Hospice can come into your home and help you caring for your father and support you whenever you may feel the need for it.
 
Much love,
Edda

Peace and joy!

I now edda  i never took it that way at all you all so kind and helpfull i didnt nw you could help like you said thankyou denise

Sorry to be a pain but i got to tell someone i feel so low today
keep up a good face in front of dad
he been sleeping alot  still not eating very much
it is so sad to see him like this
hope you all ok denise xx

Dear Denise,
I'm so sorry you are feeling so low. Do look after yourself. This has all come as a shock to you and you are bound to have down days.
It's wonderful that you are doing this for your Dad. Try to remember this, as in days to come you will not look back and think you could have done more for your Dad because you are doing all you can.
 
I'm glad you felt able to come and share your feelings with us. You are not being a pain...this is why we are here. You are not alone.
I will light a candle now for you and your Dad.
 
Much Love and warm hugs, Jude

Love is the only way