could i ask you all to light a candle for my dad

hello all i am new
could i ask for your prays a to light a candle for my dad peter
who has been very ill thase past couple of months
he got a tummer on his liver and he had it embolistion and had chemo  at the same time
he got to go back to the hospital on the 13th november for the results  i pray its  shunk  so could i ask  to pray and think of him thankyou he been though alot and he is a very good man who would help anyone brum...................
 

Dear Brum,
I'm sorry to hear about your dad. Of course I will light a candle for him and you. Unless you would like to start a candle group for him I will light a candle in a group called Peter
I do hope the news is hopeful when he goes for test results.
 
Jude

Love is the only way

thankyou very much judy for doing that for me its mean alot to me
you most kind thankyou again and what a lovley group this is
 
brum...........................

Welcome to the forum, Denise! I am sorry to hear about your dad's illness. I will join Jude in lighting a candle for him and keep him in my prayers.
 
Please, do come back and let us know how he is doing! We are here to support you in any way we can.
 
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

I also will light a candle in a group called

Peter

 
Try to remember brum that you and he only have to handle one day at a time........
 
 

integrity is shown when no one is looking

thanyou all so much i will keep intouch i think this site is so lovely thanyou brum........................

I would like to welcome you to the forum as well, Brum . . .
I am sorry though, that you come with such a heavy heart.
Candles are lit for you and your family in the group that Jude has started. I will continue to hold you and your family in my heart, as you go through these troubles
with much love . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

Denise,

I am also going to light a candle, praying for your Father and for you.

Love, Juliana
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Thanyou all for you kind words  and  thoughts
its means alot to because i dont like to upset my husband to much  has he is disable and i dont want him to worry so i have a little cry on my own
i got tears comming down now has i read all your kinds words
alot has happen to us in 10 weeks dads come to live with us which is a big changen in his life has he was a very indpend man  also with his illness it been very  upsetting for him
 my so call sister who live in birmingham
came down to see dad while he was in hospital
and when dad got the bad news about his trumer she was booking the train to go home on the same day she spent 5 mins with him the day she leif
but i dont expect any more of her she always been fuuny she would keep away for years and not talk
she keep her husband away from his parents and he never seen them befor they die
i feel so sorry for him
when my mom die 15 years this month she was the same
sorry to bore you all 
anyway thankyou again brum xxx

Dear Denise, you are NOT boring us at all! We asked you to tell us more so we can get to know you better! Family relationships are complicated as we all know. Perhaps one aspect of your sister's behaviour at this time is that she can't deal with bad news. Please, reconsider not letting your husband in on how you feel. He may be more aware of it than you realize. If you can't talk to him then I hope you have a friend you can confide in. Of course, you are always welcome to share your feelings here. It does help!
 
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

Dear Denise, May I also welcome you to our forum family.  As Edda said, you are not boring us, dear.  We are pleased that you have found this online family where you are comfortable with how you are feeling and your concerns both about your dad and your husband.  As Edda said, sometimes individuals just can't deal with the pain of life.  It just becomes too much for them.  I am so sorry to read that your brother-in-law didn't get to his own parents before they died.  Sometimes that's just how biological families are.  When our own biological families seem incapable of being our support, God always provides all the love and support we need for what is going on in our lives.  Perhaps that is why he directed you to this website.  Know that you, your dad and your family will be held in much prayer.

Yesterday is gone forever.Tomorrow may not come. Live Fully each moment today. Look for Good Things that Happen to you Every Day.

Thankyou edda and imenuff
my sister can deal with it she just been nastie and thougtless all her life dont know why  because we were never brough up like it  my mom was not like it or my dad
we all keep forgiveing her  but there comes a time when you cant forgive  her for all the nastie things she has done
like when  she never sent christmas cards or birthday cards and to see the hurt in my parents faces
also when we did not see her chrildren
 but we are in touch with her older daugther who is nothing like her mom
she kind  and very thoughtfull
my sister is the same with her
but still let her get on with it
thankyou  for your kind words it does help me
have a good day denise xxxx

Denise, prayers of hope and healing for your dad, prayers of strength, comfort and love to you and your family. It must be really hard for you that your sister is the way that she is, look after yourself.
Namaste
Glenys

welcome brum.  i lit a candle for your dad.  (((hugs 2 you)))

love,
kriann

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Hi Brum
I am so sorry that your father is ill. I will light a candle for your family.
 
Vicky

Hi all
just to let you know dads got to go to the hospital this monday (10th)
the hospital had someone cancel
his appioment is at 2 30
so could you say apray for him thankyou denise............

Dear Denise, I'll be glad to keep your dad in my prayers, especially on Monday. I will light a candle for him!
 
Much love,
Edda

Peace and joy!

Thankyou edda denise......................

Dear Denise . . .
How good to hear that your father-in-law has gotten an appointment to go into the hospital on Monday.
I like the others, continue to keep him and you in my thoughts and prayers.
Maybe it would help you to focus your energy and attention and love on what you have to offer. I know it hurts . . . the way your sister is behaving, but you and what you do is the only thing you are responsible for. Can you try to love your dad through this, give him all the love and support you can and not waste yourself on worrying about the negativity of your sister? She alone is responsible for herself.
I hope and pray for peace within your family
with much love to you . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

Me too Denise.
I will light a candle for your Dad.
 
Love, Jude

Love is the only way