i lite this candle in memory of my daughter mary sue

i losted my daughter mary sue  she was 8 the 12 of this mth willbe 3 mths since shes been gone  thats y me and my family lite a few candles 4 her in memory of her life
 
 
 
marys mommy

Welcome to the forum, Roseanna! I am so very sorry for the loss of your daughter. My heart goes out to you. I'll be glad to light a candle for her in the ALL group. Perhaps you would like to start a special candle group for her. I hope you will come back often, and perhaps tell us more about your daughter when you are able to do so. You will meet other mothers who have lost children and understand what you are going through. This is a safe place to share your thoughts and feelings. There is always someone ready to listen. We all would like to support you!
 
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

ty i hope this will help me deal with this i'm so losted  with out mary sumtime i just want 2 scream til i loss my voice i cry everynite wishing she was here i keep asking my self y  mary not me the parents r spose 2 go 1st not the kids  but i'm never going 2 get the answers i want 

Dear Roseanna, I'm so sorry you lost your daughter. It's early days yet and you are bound to be feeling bad. Do come and light candles with us and talk some more if you would like to. We are always here to listen, and, as Edda says several here have also lost children.
I will light a candle for Mary Sue and for you in the All group
 
Jude

Love is the only way

Dearest Roseanna! Your grief is so fresh and painful. It is good that you can cry. Children aren't supposed to die before their parents but it happens. They have been a gift to their family for too short a time! And there aren't any good answers. Know that you are not alone in your grief.
I don't know what your beliefs are, but I myself believe that those who have passed on to a new life are very close to us, that we can talk to them and listen to them in our hearts.
 
I put my arms around you in spirit!
Much love,
Edda

Peace and joy!

my beliefs r that same  i was told that she not in anymore pain and looking down on her family it just hurts so bad i'm going through this alone  my family doesnt understand what i'm going though  i just want mary sue memory 2 live on in our hearts i was told god does stuff in different ways n we cant understand y god does what he does my uncle said god needed another angel and he seen mary was sick so he took her  

Dear Roseanna,
 
I too will light a candle in the All group for your beloved and sorely missed daughter Mary Sue. Time will never erase her memory, but perhaps with time the intensity of the pain will lessen. i am sure you can not imagine that yet, but it is possible.
 
I will say a prayer for your family too in this time of mourning.
 
may you find peace in this painful time,
 
Karen

integrity is shown when no one is looking

Dear, dear Roseanna . . .
I welcome you with open arms my dear, as have others. It is with a deep sadness you have come here . . .
I do believe you are in the right place, and hope that you can feel some comfort while you grieve.
I, like you, lost a child many years ago, and it changed my life forever. I miss him always, but am grateful for the short time he was with me. For you the grief is so fresh and raw that it almost feels like a physical pain. You will be sorrowful as is natural, but over time if you allow yourself, your broken heart will be open and not only will joy return little by little, but you will love more and more as well.
I wish like Jude and Edda, that I could put my arms around you. I hope that there is someone in your life you can talk to . . . in the meantime we are here, and we care for you.
I hold you close to my heart as I feel your sadness. I have felt the very same sadness myself, and understand just how painful it is.
I light a candle for your precious little daughter Mary Sue and pray that you might find some thing, even just one thing to smile about. As Edda says, your daughter is near . . . listen with your heart. You will have her there forever.
with much love to you my dear . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

ty everyone i'm glad i found this site it looks like ya all going to help me make it through this tough time thankz again

Dear Rosanne, Sparrow is right. Putting a loved one into your heart really does help. It works for me, especially when I am feeling specially sad. No-one can take Mary Sue from your heart.
 
with Love, Jude

Love is the only way

thats right mary sue will always be in my heart along with the twin i losted at 5 mths pregnant but they are all inmy heart and the memory will live on 2

You will survive Roseanna . . .
You are stronger than you know.
I send you much love . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

i'm tring 2 be strong but its hard but i have 2 be strong 4 me lil gurls  she needs me 2 be strong but sumtimes i cant i keep asking y  my daughter  he didnt have 2 take my daughter from  me & my family we  sadly miss her  but she will always in our hearts n thoughs  her memory will live on

ROSEANNE, I'M SO SORRY FOR YOUR GRIEF. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU. I LOST 2 BABIES TO MISCARRIAGE SO I KNOW SOMEWHAT OF YOUR GRIEF. PLEASE KNOW THAT WE ARE HERE FOR YOU IF YOU EVER NEED TO TALK. PLEASE KNOW THERE ARE THE MOST SPECIAL PEOPLE ON THIS FORUM. YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. I WILL LIGHT A CANDLE FOR YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER. AS FAR AS YOUR DAUGHTER IS CONCERNED SHE MIGHT BE GONE IN PERSON  BUT SHE WILL NEVER BE GONE FROM YOUR HEART. HER MEMORY WILL ALWAYS LIVE ON. ALSO, WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT AND YOU FEEL YOU CAN, IT MIGHT HELP TO SHARE YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER'S STORY WITH US. SOMETIMES I HAVE FOUND THAT SHARING MY EXPERIENCES LOOSING MY 2 BABIES HELPED ME COPE BETTER WITH MY GRIEF. I STILL GRIEVE EVERY DAY BUT IT HELPS TO KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO CARE AND THAT I KNOW THAT THEY WILL WALK THIS ROAD WITH ME. WITH LOVE TO YOU......

Roseanna, I'm sorry for your loss.  I will also light a candle for the soul of your daughter and for you.  

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Hello ROseanna, I will light a candle for you and your daughter. My heart goes out to you, with hugsx
Gina and Jackoryx

Roseanna, I am so sorry for your loss and heartbreak. Prayers for you, little Mary Sue and everyone who loves and misses her. Namste
Glenys x

ty so much its going 2 be hard now since the holidays  coming  ty every1 4 lighting a candle  4 my daughter mary sue

Dear Roseanna, my heart goes out to you! This time of the year is especially difficult for you and many others. I'll keep you and your daughter in my prayers and light a candle.
 
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

I too will light a candle. Blessings to you Roseanna.
 
Love, Jude

Love is the only way