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Isabella Bernardo

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In this weeks - 12/1/2008 5:14 PM ( #1 )
The Advent season is just the thing for reflective thoughts also to those people, who have to live in poor conditions.This tale provides a good opportunity.
 
Thank you edda, that you helped me to find the story in English!
 
In this way,
 
love, Isabella
 
 
The Little Match Girl
by   Hans Christian Andersen






Most terribly cold it was; it snowed, and was nearly quite dark, and evening – the last evening of the year. In this cold and darkness there went along the street a poor little girl, bareheaded, and with naked feet. When she left home she had slippers on, it is true; but what was the good of that? They were very large slippers, which her mother had hitherto worn; so large were they; and the poor little thing lost them as she scuffled away across the street, because of two carriages that rolled by dreadfully fast.
One slipper was nowhere to be found; the other had been laid hold of by an urchin, and off he ran with it; he thought it would do capitally for a cradle when he some day or other should have children himself. So the little maiden walked on with her tiny naked feet, that were quite red and blue from cold. She carried a quantity of matches in an old apron, and she held a bundle of them in her hand. Nobody had bought anything of her the whole livelong day; no one had given her a single farthing.
She crept along trembling with cold and hunger – a very picture of sorrow, the poor little thing!
The flakes of snow covered her long fair hair, which fell in beautiful curls around her neck; but of that, of course, she never once now thought. From all the windows the candles were gleaming, and it smelt so deliciously of roast goose, for you know it was New Year's Eve; yes, of that she thought.
In a corner formed by two houses, of which one advanced more than the other, she seated herself down and cowered together. Her little feet she had drawn close up to her, but she grew colder and colder, and to go home she did not venture, for she had not sold any matches and could not bring a farthing of money: from her father she would certainly get blows, and at home it was cold too, for above her she had only the roof, through which the wind whistled, even though the largest cracks were stopped up with straw and rags.
Her little hands were almost numbed with cold. Oh! a match might afford her a world of comfort, if she only dared take a single one out of the bundle, draw it against the wall, and warm her fingers by it. She drew one out. “Rischt!” how it blazed, how it burnt! It was a warm, bright flame, like a candle, as she held her hands over it: it was a wonderful light. It seemed really to the little maiden as though she were sitting before a large iron stove, with burnished brass feet and a brass ornament at top. The fire burned with such blessed influence; it warmed so delightfully. The little girl had already stretched out her feet to warm them too; but – the small flame went out, the stove vanished: she had only the remains of the burnt-out match in her hand.
She rubbed another against the wall: it burned brightly, and where the light fell on the wall, there the wall became transparent like a veil, so that she could see into the room. On the table was spread a snow-white tablecloth; upon it was a splendid porcelain service, and the roast goose was steaming famously with its stuffing of apple and dried plums. And what was still more capital to behold was, the goose hopped down from the dish, reeled about on the floor with knife and fork in its breast, till it came up to the poor little girl; when – the match went out and nothing but the thick, cold, damp wall was left behind. She lighted another match. Now there she was sitting under the most magnificent Christmas tree: it was still larger, and more decorated than the one which she had seen through the glass door in the rich merchant's house.
Thousands of lights were burning on the green branches, and gaily-colored pictures, such as she had seen in the shop-windows, looked down upon her. The little maiden stretched out her hands towards them when – the match went out. The lights of the Christmas tree rose higher and higher, she saw them now as stars in heaven; one fell down and formed a long trail of fire.
“Someone is just dead!” said the little girl; for her old grandmother, the only person who had loved her, and who was now no more, had told her, that when a star falls, a soul ascends to God.
She drew another match against the wall: it was again light, and in the lustre there stood the old grandmother, so bright and radiant, so mild, and with such an expression of love.
“Grandmother!” cried the little one. “Oh, take me with you! You go away when the match burns out; you vanish like the warm stove, like the delicious roast goose, and like the magnificent Christmas tree!” And she rubbed the whole bundle of matches quickly against the wall, for she wanted to be quite sure of keeping her grandmother near her. And the matches gave such a brilliant light that it was brighter than at noon-day: never formerly had the grandmother been so beautiful and so tall. She took the little maiden, on her arm, and both flew in brightness and in joy so high, so very high, and then above was neither cold, nor hunger, nor anxiety – they were with God.
But in the corner, at the cold hour of dawn, sat the poor girl, with rosy cheeks and with a smiling mouth, leaning against the wall – frozen to death on the last evening of the old year. Stiff and stark sat the child there with her matches, of which one bundle had been burnt. “She wanted to warm herself,” people said. No one had the slightest suspicion of what beautiful things she had seen; no one even dreamed of the splendor in which, with her grandmother she had entered on the joys of a new year.

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RE: In this weeks - 12/1/2008 6:34 PM ( #2 )
Dear Isabella . . .
This is probably my favorite, favorite "fairy tale" from my childhood. It has never left me over the years . . .
Thank you so much for taking the time to post it here.
How many times have I (have we all) felt like that poor little match girl, and then been enriched with beauty and love
that has transported me out of
my deepest, darkest moments into the Light.
Thank you so much
with love . . .
sparrow
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RE: In this weeks - 12/2/2008 9:32 AM ( #3 )
Isabella, thank you so much (and Edda for finding the translation) for posting this story. In the midst of holiday preparations, it jolted me back to reality

The Advent season is just the thing for reflective thoughts also to those people, who have to live in poor conditions.
. How many are forced to live in poor conditions because of the products I purchase as "gifts" for others all the while providing the "gift" of more almost slave labor employment and living in subhuman conditions for those who produced it. This morning I read an article on Inter Press Service News Agency about how France is becoming more and more passionate about "FAIR TRADE" principles. There are many items that can be bought that are certified as "fair trade" products and several "fair trade" stores in most larger cities. The quality of the items produced and sold in these stores is excellent and so often much much better than the "free trade" items. How much of the world is this little girl starving to death and dieing of disease while we look the other way. It is through stories like the one you have posted that remind me to ask myself what exactly have I done to "earn" being born here and not in one of the third world countries? We often talk about our rights but what about "their" rights? For those of us who are Christian, it has always been taught that Christianity is based on a preferential option for the poor and disenfranchised. How much more meaningful would Christmas be if I would give an equal amount to the poor of the world that I spend on those like me who have been so richly blessed. Thank you for the reminder! This year, there will be more gifts given in someone's name to places like Doctors Without Borders, Kiva, etc. I remember the first year I replaced some gifts with gifts to the poor in the recipient's name, there was only one individual who was upset by it. Perhaps the question should become "what do the poor of the world need for Christmas" rather than "what do I want for Christmas. For those we still buy gifts for, I have included a link to a google search for fair trade shopping. May we all remember where and how "He" was born.

A quick P.S. to this post. There are some coffee, cocoa, tea, etc., "Fair Trade" products in grocery stores and if enough of us ask for more of them to be carried in our favorite grocery stores, it will happen.
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RE: In this weeks - 12/2/2008 10:58 AM ( #4 )
Betty, thank you for that. we certainly do need reminding of those who have less than us or nothing.
 
As for Fair Trade...THE BEST CHOCOLATE I have ever tasted is Fair Trade, called Divine, and certainly is, especially the dark variety. Food of the Gods.
 
Jude
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RE: In this weeks - 12/2/2008 2:43 PM ( #5 )
Thank you, all, to remind of fair trade products.
But, I want to give an advice:
Many people would buy this products, but the can´t. Because, and we must not forget it too, in our cauntries from month to month, their are more and more poor people.
Just came at home from my extra-money-job. I spoke with a freelance and she told me, that she is near the end of her exist, another one too, and so...it´s difficult.
 
And because I don´t have so much money, every year at Christmas, I look by things I have and I don´t need sooo much - maybe I like them, maybe I only took it away for a special time I would need them.  And every year, I make some little Christmas - packages and bring them to the underground-stations from whom I know, that people warm up themselve and have really nothing.
And every year, I bring some clothes which I collect in my family to bring them to the missionary-station (its under a Christian-direction, and poor people will get one time a day something to eat), and every year at Christmas, I collect books and toys in my family to bring them to the hospital or to rooming-house for children. And at this time in the year, it is the most only thing, what can bring me to smile.
 
When my children where young, they didn´t understand at first, why I beg them to give me some toys or books, and they´ve cried at the first time, when we braught the things away. But we did it together. And than, the understood in the same moment, when they saw how surprised kids and people where.
 
I don´t do this things so often in the year, but I do it if I can. And it means also nothing for me, to spend money to people, from whom I can assume, that they may be will buy something alcohol or something bad, because I think: I don´t know, why these people live like the live. It´s not my thing, to judge someone. I asked myself, what I want. And I only want to help in a special moment.
 
I´m sorry to have no other meaning and feeling about help. And I ´m often ashamed, I cannot do more.
 
love, I. 
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RE: In this weeks - 12/2/2008 2:52 PM ( #6 )
isabella,
i think the way you approach the idea of wishing you could do more is always the right approach
 
i don't give to strangers asking as i know it feeds their alcoholism
 
i wish you the blessings of the season
 

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RE: In this weeks - 12/2/2008 10:01 PM ( #7 )
Dear Isabella,
 
Thank you for telling us how you share what you have with those in need. It is not the price of a thing that is important but the love with which it is given!
 
I agree with you that we should not judge people on the street. We don't know how they got there, and not all are addicted in one way or another. Here in Chicago we can buy vouchers at some churches which can only be used for food.
 
Occasionally someone touches us in a special way. About two years ago I saw a young woman sitting by the curb along he Magnificent Mile, the prime shopping street in the city. She looked like a teenager but was probably older than that. She had a sign, "Homeless". I gave her money on a few occasions. She told me she wanted to get back home but needed to use what she got to find a place to sleep. Shelters were not safe. I suggested places to her where she could get help. One day I saw her again with a sign, "Homeless and pregnant." She was visibly pregnant and looked much worse than before. All light had gone out of her eyes. It does not take much imagination as to what may have happened to her. I inquired how much she needed to get home and she told me. It was the amount I happened to have on me. I asked her if she really would go home if I gave her the money and she promised. I made a leap of faith and gave it to her. She picked up her things and started walking in the direction that would bring her to transportation. I never saw her again, and hoped that she was back home. I am pretty sure some people might think I was naive and foolish to believe her, but I just could not not do it. I think at times we need to do what seems foolish!
 
Edda
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RE: In this weeks - 12/3/2008 4:13 AM ( #8 )
Edda, sometimes also we need to trust.
 
Jude
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RE: In this weeks - 12/3/2008 6:49 AM ( #9 )
I agree with Jude dear Edda . . .
Sometimes when something feels right
we need to let go of doubt and suspicion
and simply trust.
I know in my heart that you did the right thing by this poor girl
through your trusting generosity
with love . . .
sparrow
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RE: In this weeks - 12/3/2008 7:07 AM ( #10 )
Dear Isabella, you are a true blessing to this forum, you really are, thank you so much for reminding me of "the little Matchgirl".
 
It was a favourite of my childhood too.
 
Godlovex
 
May all the children everywhere today that are cold, lonely, hungry, may the light the Little Matchgirl warm and comfort them.
 
Gina and Jackoryx

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