My daughter Jessica was murdered 13 years ago by someone that we both loved very much (my husband her step-father).  I am so grateful that I was given the link to this site.  It sat in my email as I was in the hospital.. I opened it today I take it as  kind of a gift from God, seeing that I light a candle near Jessica's photo every morning on Christmas eve.And it usually stays lit for three days.  I would like to thank you for giving me the chance to honor her memory here.

Debbie Romero

Dearest Debbie,
Welcome to the forum Debbie. I am so sad to hear about your daughter Jessica. I will light a candle for her and also for you.
Christmas is such a difficult time, it is one of those hurdles isn't it when you loose someone, along with their birthday, and the anniversary of their passing, especially when that someone has been taken in such a way. My heart goes out to you...
I am very fond of the name Jessica. You are both in my prayers tonight.
with love and light
Gina and jackory

Dearest Debbie,
 
I, too, would like to welcome you to this forum. My heart goes out to you at this time when there is so much celebrating around you, and you may not feel like joining in. If you read some of the threads you will discover that you are not alone. There are other mothers who lost children and understand your grief.
 
I'll light a candle for Jessica in the ALL group. You might want to start a special group for her. You'll find the instructions in the top threads.
 
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

Dear, dear Debbie . . .
I do not believe it was an accident that you found this forum . . . I too, would like to welcome you.
There is another thread
http://my.gratefulness.org/m_20541/tm.htm
that talks about unexpected death of a loved one. You might find it helpful. I am so sorry for the terrible loss you have experienced . . . not only the loss of a beautiful daughter, but a husband who you say that you loved very much as well. This kind of grief is a terrible burden.
I hope so much that you will return, and read some of the postings . . . sharing our sorrows helps us all to heal.
I hold you close to my heart, and light a candle for you, and in honour of Jessica
with much love for you . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥

Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. A prayer of comfort, love and strength for you.
Namaste
Glenys x

debbie, i'm glad you found your way here.  (((hugs)))

love,
kriann

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Dear Debbie,
 
I am sorry for your loss.
 
Welcome!
 
May the healing hand of God be present in your life.

Grateful to be here!
What a gift and connection builder!
Love and Gratitude,
Love who You Are

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My daughter Jessica was murdered 13 years ago by someone that we both loved very much (my husband her step-father).  I am so grateful that I was given the link to this site.  It sat in my email as I was in the hospital.. I opened it today I take it as  kind of a gift from God, seeing that I light a candle near Jessica's photo every morning on Christmas eve.And it usually stays lit for three days.  I would like to thank you for giving me the chance to honor her memory here.

 
Dear Debbie
 
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter Jessica so tragically.
 
I will keep a candle glowing in her memory over the Christmas period.
 
I am so gald you found these wonderful people,they will
 
help you just like they help so many others.
 
God bless you ,Sandraxxxx
 

 
 

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

DEBBIE, WELCOME TO THE FORUM. I'M SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR DAUGHTER. I CAN'T IMAGINE THE PAIN YOUI MUST FEEL. PLEASE KNOW THAT WE HERE ON THE FORUM ARE HERE FOR YOU. ALSO, I JUST WANTED YOU TO KNOW THAT THERE ARE THE MOST SPECIAL PEOPLE ON THIS FOPRUM. SOMETIMES I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WOULD HAVE DONE WITHOUT THE SUPPORT AND LOVE OF THE PEOPLE I HAVE MET HERE. I WILL LIGHT A CANDLE FOR YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER.

Dear Debbie . . .
Thinking of you this new year's eve
and for all victim's of violence and loss . . .
I pray for comfort and healing and joy
in the coming year
with love . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥