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bernie

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Recovery to Transformation... - 12/27/2008 8:38 PM ( #1 )
Step 2 (for Addicts and Alcoholics in Recovery): I came to understand that my peronal beliefs about my Higher Power were unique and personal, which was the way it was meant to be. My Higher Power is the God of my understanding. This isn't a religious program; it is a spiritual program set up  in a way that everyone with his or her diverse beliefs can utilize. My Higher Power only wants the best for me. Now through the active process of Step 2, I was competent to release the binding grips of fear and insecurity that hindered my forward progress. 
 
Your belief in a Higher Power can be private, and it should be. Our members (A.A.) don't have to choose among our religion, or our search for recovery because we can have either. Always know that the Fellowship is a spiritual program that uses universal spiritual principles and practices for the foundation of our recovery. It has been proven, and it unquestionably works, I know from personal experience. If it wasn't for the 12 Step program, I would probably be dead, and for that I am everlastingly indebted.
 
When I completed working Step 1, I was in a state of total powerlessness. I couldn't surmount this disease (addiction) under my own power. I urgently needed a Higher Power to show me the way. After surrendering my will, I had to become willing to permit God to work His miracles in my life. I had undergone a 100% change in all aspects of my life. No longer did I have to rely on my own power to overcome the obstacles that recovery handed me. I began to "Let Go and Let God" take charge of my life. As I noticed and observed all of the miracles of recovery in others and in myself, my faith matured, my hope increased, and the knowledge essential to stay clean and serene was revealed.
 
In Step 2, we come to accept as true that God can convert us into spiritual beings, devoid of all apprehension, misery, and failure. Increasing spiritual expansion leads to enhanced awareness and clarification in our journey. The more we seek righteousness and clearness of mind, the greater our personal improvement. The routes to victory are countless with the help of our Higher Power showing us the way.
 
(Complete 12 Steps by Terry: Step 2 of 12 Steps at Recovey Life)
 
 
The importance of meditation and prayer are truly extraordinary. Most people are not aware nor conscious of its affects. Getting into an alpha state facilitates much healthy side effects which too often have been lost in our modern tech age, i.e., the relaxation response which has been found to reduce oxygen consumption even beyond the sleep-dream state.
 
This stress buster is so crucial in producing healthier, more productive human beings. For instance, so many are suffering from a devastating serotonin deficiency syndrome which often wreaks widespread havoc in our lives; ergo, anything which effectively, safely, and dramatically transforms - yes, alters this screwy bad-wiring in our genetic code gone awry is the key, the desideratum.
 
In today's world there are - more than ever - many concerns and crises that may emerge and even engulf us - our individual - national - international security. Indubitably, only cosmic, Higher Power and meaning can ultimately bring us the peace - creative harmony - the eternal verities (justice-beauty-truth-love ad infinitum) we all despair over existentially...
 
 
Sr Auorobindo is firm in his conviction that the birth of the Divine in man is the supreme consummation towards which the march of human civilisation has been proceeding through the ages. Man has the power within him to rise above the limitations of his ego-centric nature, and to enter into conscious co-operation with the Divine Power which secretly guides the process of evolution. As a consequence, man can himself be the vehicle for the full self-revelation of the Divine.
 
(Dr. Haridas Chaudhuri, Sri Aurobindo: Prophet of Life Divine)
 
 
Synthesizing, the creative process is something which we can, indeed, get in touch with and live out from our core, here-now, ad infinitum. Why must we be so separated from this except that we've been so totally and utterly conditioned in our overly pragmatic, deterministic, mechanistic ways? The artist and mystic are truly bedfellows in that they are forever striving to bring together these two worlds -- the world of Being (unitive life, samadhi, nirvana) and the conventional, practical everyday world (samsara: the endless series of birth, suffering, death, and rebirth) that has been inculcated into our consciousness, our very being, and molded our character structure.
 
 
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RE: Recovery to Transformation... - 12/28/2008 7:57 AM ( #2 )
Dear Bernie . . .
In our oh so busy lives, full of chaos, adrenaline and "things to do" it takes what seems to be great effort (especially, it seems for us Westerners) to do something as simple as sitting and meditating. It is simple, but not easy. And you are right . . . we aren't truly able to see how it could benefit us (something so simple) until we actually begin to feel the benefits within ourselves. The hardest part is setting aside our "busyness" and take the time.
If we don't do the work we will not feel the benefits.
I started by setting an egg timer for five minutes. Even the greatest journey starts with a first step.
with love . . .
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RE: Recovery to Transformation... - 12/28/2008 4:43 PM ( #3 )
Physical Benefits: From early childhood onward, most of us get into bad habits in the way we use our bodies. These eventually include not only a bad diet, excessive drinking, smoking and lack of exercise, but also the way in which we hold ourselves, the way we move, and the way we breathe. Over the years tensions creep up on us almot unnoticed: our breathing becomes irregular and shallow, our posture slumps, we sit badly, we walk badly and stand badly, and we even use our voices badly.
 
Meditation allows us not only to look at what is going on in our minds, but also what is going on in our bodies. It (mindfulness) gives us the space to check up on ourselves, to become re-acquainted to how it feels to live within our bodies, to become conscious of the way we breathe, and of the many minor aches and pains to which we subject ourselves by our usual way of being, so that we can at first consciously, but then with practice unconsciously, counteract them.
 
Mind benefits:  The result is not only reduced stress for ourselves and often for others, but clearer vision and more objective judgment. Hurry is seen as counterproductive, and with patience there comes a greater ability to discriminate between what is important and what is not.
 
(David Fontana, Ph.D., Learn to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Self-Discovery and Fulfillment)
 
 
 
Mysticism and Psychology: The heart eager and restless, goes out into the unknown, and brings home, literally and actually, 'fresh food for thought.' Hence those who 'feel to think' are likely to possess a richer, more real, if less orderly, experience than those who 'think to feel.'
 
(Note: surely, 'NFs' on Jung's MBTI peronality typology inventory; probably an 'INFJ' to be exact.)
 
...it is essential that his love and his determination, even more than his thought, should be set upon Transcendent Reality. He must feel a strong emotional attraction toward the supersensual Object of his quest... Now, in dealing with this, and other rare mental conditions, we are of course trying to describe from without that which can only adequately be described from within; which is as much as to say that only mystics can really write about mysticism. Fortunately, many mystics have so written; and we, from their experiences and from the explorations of psychology upon another plane, are able to make certain elementary deductions. It appears generally from these that the act of contemplation is for the mystic a psychic gateway...
 
It remains a paradox of the mystics that the passivity at which they appear to aim is really a state of the most intense activity: more, that where it is wholly absent no great creative action can take place. In it, the superficial self compels itself to be still, in order that it may liberate another more deep-seated power which is, in the ecstasy of the contemplative genius, raised to the highest pitch of efficiency. 
 
...the personality of man is a far deeper and more mysterious thing than the sum of his conscious feeling, thought, and will: that this superficial self - this Ego of which each of us is aware - hardly counts in comparison with the deeps of being which it hides. 'There is a root or depth in thee,' says Law, 'from whence all these faculties come forth as lines from a centre, or as branches from a body of a tree. This depth is called the centre, the fund, or bottom, of the soul. This depth is the unity, the Eternity, I had almost said the infinity of thy soul, for it is so infinite that nothing can satisfy it, or give it any rest, but the infinity of God (Wm. Law, 'The Spirit of Prayer').'
 
(Evelyn Underhill's unsurpassed classic work in its field: Mysticism: A Study in the Nature and Development of Man's Spiritual Consciousness)
 
 
 
 
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RE: Recovery to Transformation... - 12/30/2008 6:41 AM ( #4 )

...the personality of man is a far deeper and more mysterious thing than the sum of his conscious feeling, thought, and will: that this superficial self - this Ego of which each of us is aware - hardly counts in comparison with the deeps of being which it hides
That is probably the first big hurdle.
We hold our "egos" dear . . .
but oh so freeing when we can let go.
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