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karebear
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my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/1/2009 8:25 AM
Hello friends. My friend from another forum RJ (Robert J) has just found out that he has squamous cell lung cancer (not the small kind) in one section of his lung. He also has pneumonia (not sure if its in both lungs). His appetite is poor and he just got out of the hospital and has to have more tests and consults on what course of action to take.
 
Please pray for him and please take a minute if you dont mind and light a candle for him in a group called RJH
 
thanks
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/1/2009 9:08 AM
Dear Karen,
 
I am so sorry to hear that your friend has lung cancer, troubling news for him and all who love him. I'll be glad to light a candle for him and include him in my prayers,
 
Much love,
Edda
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/1/2009 10:00 AM
thanks Edda. :)
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/1/2009 10:38 AM
Dear Karen,

I am also going to light a candle for your friend, keeping your concern in my heart.

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/1/2009 11:16 AM
Dear Karen,
I will light a candle for your friend.
 
With Love, Jude
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/1/2009 12:59 PM
thanks Juliana and Jude. it warms my heart to feel the caring in this forum. ((((HUGS)))) to all my friends here.
 
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/2/2009 6:38 AM
I will light a candle.  Holding your friend in my heart.

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/2/2009 6:45 AM
Dear Karen . . .
A candle of hope and healing
has been lit for Robert . . .
I will keep him in my thoughts and prayers
with much love . . .
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/2/2009 7:41 PM
Dear Karen,
 
Sorry to hear this news! I will light a candle and add him to my prayers too.
Grateful to be here!
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/3/2009 12:35 PM
Dear Karen
Sorry to hear the news about your friend I will keep him in my thoughts
love sharon

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/4/2009 6:20 AM
Dear All,
 
my warm thanks for keeping RJ lifted in your thoughts and prayers and for lighting candles for him too. :)
 
When I know more I will reply with info.
 
Karen
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/8/2009 6:13 PM
Here is some info from a mutual friend who talked to RJ recently:
 
"I talked to him yesterday.  He sounds good, and his spirits seem high.  It sounds like his medical team is top-notch, and he has a good group of friends and family that include some very knowledgeable people who know the right questions to ask and keep him well informed.
 
I am heartened by all the good news I heard."

 
I still don't know what course of treatment they are going to decide on for him. I will let you know more as I find it out. thanks for caring. Karen
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/8/2009 8:59 PM
Thank you, Karen, for keeping us informed. My prayers remain with RJ,
 
Much love,
Edda
 
 
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/9/2009 1:20 AM
Dear Karen,
 
I will hold Robert in my daily  prayers today.
 
I hope for a miracle for in him many ways.
 
Take care,Sandraxx
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/9/2009 8:14 AM
Thank you Karen,
for this news.
It sounds as if Robert is being surrounded by good people
who are truly qualified to help.
I continue to hold him in my heart
with love . . .
sparrow
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/11/2009 5:37 PM
Email from RJ!
 
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I'm having a great start anyway,  My second day without radiation sickness,  hope that continues.
 
I have a great medical team.  I think Gods in charge.  [Hope so anyway] 
  
 
rj=
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/11/2009 7:03 PM
Thank you Karen.
I will light a candle for RJ
 
Jude
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/12/2009 5:16 AM
i'll light one also.

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/12/2009 6:03 AM

I think Gods in charge.

Dear Karen . . .
I think so too.
I am continuing to keep Robert in my heart
as he goes through his treatment program
and pray the very best for him
with love . . .
sparrow
ps. a candle lit for him in your group RJH
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/14/2009 7:43 AM
thank you all for the sweet replies and for lighting candles. it means alot to me and I will tell RJ in an email now that many people are lifting him with warm thoughts and some prayers too!
 
 
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/23/2009 1:54 PM
Hello there. I got some emails from RJ's wife Lou Ellen. Here is some information she said I could share with the forum.
 
She tells me that he had a a port put it for ease of transferring the IV's. They will do another PET scan in a few more weeks to see how the treatment is going.   He has his radiation therapy down to a breeze, takes about 15 minutes from the time they take him back until he returns for trip home.  Of course on Mondays, he goes directly to the lab for the chemo and that takes a number of hours.  It will be much better tomorrow though since he now has the port in the shoulder so they don't have to struggle with his veins.   he has had none of the nausea usually associated with chemo and he is generally eating fairly well. he is having good days and bad days. continued prayer would be much appreciated....
 
Lou Ellen herself could use some prayers too. she is having a biopsy of the artery running through her temple today,  they think she has what is known as  Giant Cell Arteritis.  She is not afraid since they have already started treatment, unfortunately it requires long term (at least six months) use of Prednisone and she doesn't look forward to the increase weight gain.  She has no problems so far with her sight which is a major risk, but the doctors believe they have caught it in time to prevent any further damage.
 
If I find out any more about the situation I will keep you informed.  
 
~Karen
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/23/2009 4:21 PM
Dear Karen,
Thank you for the update.
 
I will light candles for them both.
 
Love, Jude
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/23/2009 9:39 PM
Hi Karen!
 
Thanks for the update.
 
I will light a candle for both of them also.
Grateful to be here!
What a gift and connection builder!
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/23/2009 10:09 PM
Thank you, Karen, for keeping us informed!

I will light a candle for Robert and Lou Ellen, and keep them in my prayers,

Love,
Edda
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/24/2009 9:29 AM
holding both robert and lou ellen in my heart.

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/24/2009 11:13 AM
Prayers of healing and hope for RJ
we too are praying for our freind D who is battling the same cancer
may God hold them both in his heart and arms as they take this journey
 may God hold their healers in his heart and hand as they touch our friends God is the ultimate physician
 
God I gratefully await and accept your miracles for me that I may be a witness to your wonder

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/25/2009 10:36 AM
hugs and prayers for all who are dealing with this disease.

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/25/2009 7:32 PM
[color="#000099" size="3"]Karen, I'm so sorry to hear about your friends' illnesses.  I have lit a candle for both.  It seems that Robert is having a good start with his radiation and chemo, and I know that more people than ever are surviving lung cancer today.

I will keep them both in my prayers.

Hugs,

Angela

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/25/2009 8:15 PM
Dear Karen 'I have lit a candle for RJ.  May he be held in the light of healing.  May his, and Lou Ellens suffering be eased today.    Sending love and light, liliwings

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/26/2009 2:08 PM
Karen, I'm sorry for your friend's illnesses. Thanks for the up-dates and I will light a candle for them both.

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/27/2009 8:22 AM
To All-

I appreciate your kind thoughts, words, and prayers as I know RJ and his wife and family do too. Gracias....

luv and hugz,Karen
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 3/28/2009 12:14 AM
Hello Karen,
I have lit another candle for your friends RJ and Lou Ellen.  I am praying for healing for him. In light and love, liliwings
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 4/1/2009 5:47 PM
Dear friends, thanks for all the candles and prayers and thoughts. The warmth I feel here for my friends and me is indescribably beautiful!
 
The following is an update from RJ's wife Lou Ellen.   Robert J slept through the entire night without a pain pill.....God does love us !!!!!  OOOPs- just learned that he woke at 2:00 and had to take the pill, but that is a good start....LE






 Robert J went to bed tonight without a pain pill (first time).  He had a good visit with the Radiologist and the Oncologist today.   Probably within the next two weeks they will do some re-evaluation on his treatment and this is what they think;  He will go from the chemo/radiation combo to a concentrated chemo treatment every three weeks.   I was not totally aware of the fact that the chemo these past few weeks was to help his body accept the radiation.  The Oncologist says he is very pleased with the progress and does expect a full recovery (just don't know how long it will take). Good News !!!! my biopsy came back -no Arteritis------Bad News-- more checking to see what is causing my blood sed-rate to rise and what is causing the problem.....I am happy since I don't have to continue worrying about the loss of eyesight for now anyway. 
I had the eyes checked today and there is no problem there.  Actually I did not really think so, but I became a little paranoid just thinking that if I should lose my sight, who would take care of Robert J????.   Tomorrow I will go for further lab work to see if they can determine why I am fighting the anemia again after a reprieve of nearly thirty years.  My doctor is very determined and I feel confident that she will find the answer.  I do not react normally to routine medications for anemia so I do anticipate a bit of a struggle.I thank you all so much for your prayers and good wishes for Robert J and for me.   I love you all God Bless
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 4/2/2009 7:23 AM
Thank you for the update dear Karen . . .
It is so hard when both members of a couple
are going through medical hardtimes . . .
I am glad for this little bit of good news.
Robert and Lou Ellen continue in my prayers
with love . . .
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 4/2/2009 7:20 PM
Thank You Karen for the update!
I am keeping them in my prayers.
 
 
Love, Paece and Joy,
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 4/3/2009 6:47 AM
you all are welcome for the updates. i am happy to share my friends' concerns with you here. that is what this place is so great for!
 
take care now
 
Love and Hugs,
Karen
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 4/6/2009 2:11 PM
karen
my prayers go to you and your friend
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 4/6/2009 3:31 PM
God certainly does love them Karen and I am sure he will carry them both
 
always through the bad and good times.
 
Take good care Karen,Sandraxx
 

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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 4/6/2009 4:01 PM
Welcome to the forum, John!
 
I hope you will visit often and tell us more about yourself. We are always glad to get to know new members!
 
With every good wish and love,
Edda
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RE: my dear friend RJ has lung cancer - 4/7/2009 6:57 AM
Dear John . . .
I too, would like to welcome you to the forum,
and hope that you will return
and share your journey
with love . . .
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