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I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 2:18 PM ( #1 )
Well Ladies what a trip I hadwhere oh where do I beginI guess at the

start may be good...

But first I must say it's so so good to be home with all of my Family young

and old

Well as you know I left here on the 23rd Feb and headed off to Heathrow

Airport! Gosh the airport is massive.

I guess I have not really lived as when I entered terminal 5 of the

airport I checked in as you dothen I headed off for a cup of tea(that's the

Irish in me)anyway I thought I had lots of time as the flight gate was

just right next to me through the door.So me being me I checked my

emailsthen I

heard last and final call to Bangalore! so I off I headed through the gate

unbeknown to me when I went through the gate I then had to board a

shuttle bus plust 6 flights of sliding stairs then Ia lift to the proper gate

.Anyway I was the last person to board the plane and I felt so silly well

I went red really and put my head downanyway....

The flight was 9 hours long I was fine as we flew hight above the clouds.I

said my prayers to Jesus asking him kindly to guide the plane.Then I blew

Louis and all our beloved children and loved ones kisses.My list was

endless .Then my mind went off into it's own fairy story with you all

sitting with me.It's so funny as I have only seen a photo of Sparrow but in

my mind I have seen photo's of you all...I will describe you all in another

post one day I promiseanyway...

I felt a bit funny on the flight and the long and short of it all I ended up

being moved to club class with oxygen.I guess it was a mixture of Louis's

dates,flying alone and going into the unknown.I am so much a home

person and when I step outside of my zone I feel so insecure anyway

sorry to ramble!!

I was fine but the airsteward made me think of Jude so muchhe said'

Sandra could you please stop saying sorryas you have no reason to say

it!!'Jude popped up bless her!

Well I prayed so much to Jesus and one stage they were talking about

diverting the plane if I felt any worse.

I do pray but not really hard but then I prayed so so hard and I kind of

begged Jesus to make me feel ok.

No wonder my blood pressure droppedanyway I ended up fine and in

club class stretched out like lady Muckbut fine so my prayers were

answered.

Sorry to ramble I eventually landed and I was never so pleased to see

my boss waiting for me at the gates...


So we the heat hit me at 5am! it was like a furnace even at that time of

the morning.

The traffic was awful it really was as people start out to work so early

there and they work such long hours,even longer than me.


Anyway my first impressions were of sorrow as I could see  what looked

like make shift shacks along side of the roads.In fact they were homes

made with cardboard, wood and paper.I could see one little girl no older

than two standing there  with such a blank expression on her face.I felt so

greedy in so many ways.We passed so many shacks and it made me

realise I should be so grateful for what I have as at times I guess so lost

in what I have lost instead of thinking just what I have!

I took some pictures of people as my eyes nealry popped out look a man

lady and a tiny tot on one bike with not a helmet in sight!








 
 The cycle rickshaw, being a small-scale local means of transport, 
 I went on one of these but I felt somewhat guiltyas my size to pull in  enought to kill anyonehowever the poor man survived just!!!   We went to Bangalore for a family wedding and I have to say I have never seen anything like the wedding in all of my 41 years. Hindu ceremonies can last up to 5 days ,but this one lasted 3 days .  Certain ceremonies are picked by the families of the bride and the  groom depending on their family tradition, caste. I went to one of the services with the two little ones I care for,   because it's impossible for children and Nanny's to keep still for 48  hours!! I thought the setting was perfect and so romantic , look at the lights that  lead you along the lovely velvet carpet...  and men played such beautiful music to lead us all in... 
 and this was where the bride and groom sat on a lovely canopy stage... 
 In fact they changed the stage several times all through the 46 hours!! The guests started arriving in their 100's! 
 
  The food was so yummy and Sparrow I thought of you ,you could have  come as it was all veggie and oh so yummy!!! 
 Oh Liliwings they had Mango their too and lots of it 
      In their tradition the bride and Groom do not eat any food  at all for the  entire time thoughout the wedding ceromony. They are allowed to drink water but that's all.The lady I work for said that the bride or groom never enjoy their wedding as there are so many  different changes of clothes and rituals that they have to go through. I could understand why as well...  It's so different to any  wedding I have ever been to.  They looked so happy on the stage, but gosh they were greeting their  guests for well over three hours on the stage in all of that heat!! Oh I forgot to add it was 35oC. This is me by the way.... 
  I left with the children after we had a yummy meal of rice,yummy potato with spicy lentils,veg curry,and all sorts of bits and bobs... The man I work for (it was his sister that got married)  stayed their  all night to see the holy man do whatever needed to be done. When the wedding finished the groom went ahead to his parents house. The man I work for took his sister there and then he kind of gives her a  way to her in laws and her husband.They then stay up all that day too and more family comes along to meet the girl.  The man I work for said his sister fainted twice through lack of food.I was shocked but he assured me this is normal and all brides go through this. So you see for me it really was an eye opener!!! I got to meet so many people and they were all so nice and friendly  towards me.  Banglore it's self is such a buzzing city ,it has so many world wide  comapnys based their.I was so amased by the amount of traffic and their are no rules when it comes to driving and none of them know what  alane is on a road!!!Half of the time I had my eyes closed and I clung onto the baby for dear life.They don't have seat belts or baby seatsI was so worried for the first few days but then I had to learn to let my fears go. Gosh it was an experince and even now I can still hear car horns blasting!  We then went to Kolkuta for the second week and I really liked it there. We stayed with the children's Grandparents and they spolit me so much with their yummy food and company. Oh I have to tell you thisthey live about 30 miles away from the city in on the outskirts of a town.I got very brave the second night and went for  a walk .I was listening to my music and all of a sudden I noticed at least 60 people staring at me.I thought I was normalbut to them I was  different.I don't like anyone looking at me so to see hundreds of people all looking at me I went so and put my head down.Bless them the people I work for said that I was probably the only English person that has ever  walked through that town.Trust me to not notice that it was me that  stood out like a sore thumb. Oh and the cows roam all around look.... 
 I chatted away to the cows bless them they were so friendly ,I think they may have liked me in some small way and maybe understood me
  I took some lovely photo's of sunsets,but for some reason my photo's  won't go big on photo bucket
   
  One night I went to a temple of Lord Hanuman Monkey God .Here he is look....  
 The lady I work for said he is very powerful ,so I prayed so hard to him. I got lost in thought as I was praying and do you know what I said to him ?. Well I prayed to him and what I meant to ask for was another baby for me but because I was looking at his face as I was asking I asked for a baby  monkey.I nearly died and quickly said sorry to him and said I meant a baby.Afterwards I chuckled to myself as I thought he may know me or  maybe at least he might forgive me. Kolkatta was so nice apart from the heat,boy it was hot you could not go out during the hours of 11am to 4pm as it was just too hot. I took so many lovely pictures that I will share hopefully I will be able to show them big as they are priceless. Gosh I did miss you all but in many ways you all came with me as many  times I said to myself oh Edda,Betty ,Lilwings,Diane,My Sparrow,Buba,Diane,Isabella,Xanadue, Barbara,Lynne,Joya,Joya,and our Family would love this. Well I have so many phot's to share with you but I have not slept for 48 hoursdue to those horrid Mosquitoessorry Sparrow I know they maybe a gift from God but look what they did to me....
  I need to sleep now as I have work in the morning,but ah it's so nice to be back it really is. I will share more tomorrow night I promise. Lots of love and warmth Sandraxxxxxxxx               
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 3:16 PM ( #2 )
 
 
SANDRA DEAR  !!!!
 
 
We all  missed you !!!
 
~with regards to you and all~
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 3:36 PM ( #3 )
Dear Sandra,

Welcome home! We missed you!

Thank you for sharing your flight experience and your first impressions!

I am glad you recovered from feeling poorly during the flight. Isn't there a bit of "humour" in it that you were moved up to better accomodations?  Too bad you could not enjoy them more. However I can understand that all the fuss made you feel worse, but all is well that ends well! 

Awaiting the continuation of your story after you had some time to rest and get over jetlag,

Much love,
Edda
Peace and joy!
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 4:05 PM ( #4 )


WELCOME HOME SANDRA!!!!
Yesterday is gone forever.Tomorrow may not come. Live Fully each moment today. Look for Good Things that Happen to you Every Day.
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 4:14 PM ( #5 )
  Hello, Sandra, next time  to avoid all difficulties at the air-port
  you can choose some other way of transport (flying):
 
a) this one:                                  b) or this ....                            c) or even this....
 
 
                                                                                   
 
 
Which one do you prefer  ???
 
~with regards to you~
  Buba,Goran's mom
 
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 4:27 PM ( #6 )
I missed you too lots....
 
Yes Edda I did smile as I was actually lying flat on such a comfy bed/chair.
 
Maybe when Mr Right comes along he may well treat me to such comforts
 
 
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Thank you Betty for such lovely colourful words it's so lovely to be home.
 
 
 
 
As for you Bubayour too good now with your picturesI feel like a
 
amature now.
 
Me thinks I will take the broomstick as I am a witch
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 4:48 PM ( #7 )
Good choice ! That makes the two of us !
                          
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 4:58 PM ( #8 )
See Buba we have so much in common
 

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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 5:00 PM ( #9 )
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 5:11 PM ( #10 )
      AREN"T WE SWEET ???
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Sandra,why are you not sleeping yet? You need rest !
 
~regards to you~
Buba,Goran's mom
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 5:13 PM ( #11 )
Buba don't be fooled love is blind
I am off to bed soon it's just that there are so many posts
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 5:14 PM ( #12 )
 
That is why I wear glasses  - to see better, but I am blind besides them, it seems....

You are so fast in posting message - that must be because of the broom you used....

GOODNIGHT AND SWEET DREAMS TO YOU !
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 5:19 PM ( #13 )
Buba your a changed woman since I went away,ah but don't worry I will
 
shape you back to the old Buba....
 
 
 
Oh I wear glasses but no luck for me yet
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 5:44 PM ( #14 )
Welcome home Sandra, you were very  missed !!
and your name was written here many times in your absence !!  I am veryyyyy glad you see you home, and in one piece.  Thank you for the story. I loved the photos.  I was dismayed to read this:

The man I work for said his sister fainted twice through lack of food.I was shocked but he assured me this is normal and all brides go through this.
  Oh dear, how sad. 

We stayed with the children's Grandparents and they spolit me so much
  Good Sandra, you deserve that. 
So you asked for a baby monkey, before correcting the request?  Well, lets see what you get then. (((((sandra )))))))  I have a stuffed chimp. Her name is grace grace.  I did not ask for her. I just picked her up in a store and she put her little stuffed arms around my neck.  Recently I asked how that happened. I saw an angel.  Guess I know now.
 
Awww the misquitos did hurt your legs, and they made them sideways also   I call them the vampires of the insect kingdom.  Sorry sparrow xxxx
 
I am glad you are back sweetie. You were very missed.  Sending lots of love, and light and crystal sparkles for sleep, liliwings
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 6:14 PM ( #15 )
Ah Liliwings that's why my ears were burning
 
I know I felt sad as I feel your wedding day is suppose to be one of the
 
best days of your life .Maybe it was who knows...
 
Liliwings I would not like to give birth to a monkeythats why I went
 
into a panicand said sorry so fast.I am sure Grace grace is sweet
 
maybe you got her through me in someway or other.
 
Liliwings do you know what orbs areif you do can you tell me as I am
 
unsure about them.I am swaying now so this means I need my sleep.
 
Ni ni God bless us all ,Sandraxxxx
 
oh sorry I forgot to say don't say sorry to Sparrow they turned my leg
 
sideways those little horrors
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 6:32 PM ( #16 )
Sandra
I'm grateful you are home, you had a safe trip with wonderful cultural experiences , I'm selfishly grateful for your wonderful photos that have  allowed me to enjoy expereincing a small piece of a long hed dream of mine to visit India I'm grateful you learned about the traditional Indian wedding I'm grateful we do not have weddings like that here or I fear Joe and I would not have followed through LOL our wedding was in the Judges chambers and took about 20 minutes however the judge did speak of finding a soul mate.....anyway welcome home and to all here I,m grateful for the colorful, light hearted bantor and shared chuckles I'm beginning to feel like I am very serious all of the time will have to work on that also thank you for the beautiful gratitude re: my prayers I do not take much credit for the words as I am usually given them by the source and creator perhaps I will ask him to help me be a little more humorous I'm grateful for all here  Bye for now oh I leave you this link to share http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESe-AysF9mw
Namaste
Barbara T
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 6:55 PM ( #17 )
Sandra! How lovely to see your name when I logged on. I took so long reading of your adventures you had gone when I next looked. I hope you are sleeping well.
 
That was so funny about the baby monkey
 
Welcome back. It hasn't been the same without you.
 
Lots of Love, Jude
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 7:51 PM ( #18 )
that makes 3 of us! Jude
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 8:26 PM ( #19 )
Dear Barbara
 
I would say your Judge hit the nail on the head so to speak.
 
Bless you so much you made me laugh not you but me being dim for a second I thought you meant Judge Judy married youthen I re read your post sorry!!!
 
Your lovely the way you are so no need to work on anything trust me I know.
 
India was so lovely I wish I could make my photo's bigger on here as then you would see what I can see toobut they kind of vanish when I try.
 
I can't open your link I'm sorry as my computer won't allow me ,maybe it's jet lag.
 
Your words are a blessing to many ,thank you lots....
 
Sandraxxxx
 
 
Oh Jude now put Buba back and stop coping her it will make her sad as she now has become three.
 
I am so gald you smiled too as I know a chuckle is what we all need.
 
Love to all from a very itchy Sandraxxxx
 
 

 
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RE: I'm Home!!!! - 3/8/2009 9:36 PM ( #20 )
everyone, your images are tooo funny !! thank you. Buba, you are the image queen for sure. I love those witches. Sandra, Orbs are very good. From everything I know, they are angels.  Barbara, that is the funniest video.  Thank you !!! i sent it to people.  My brother emailed me back fast saying he had just gotten it in another email and had just viewed it.
that makes 3 of us! 
 hey Jude  wait for me  liliwings with a tail wind
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