Dearest Debbie,
 
Like Liliwings said your not rambling on,the loss of a parent is soul
 
destroying and at times like this your loss is magnified.
 
It's your loved ones you turn to in your time of need.
 
I am so glad you have found this forum as there are always many people
 
around to share you sad days and and happy days too.
 
Thinking of you right now and praying that things will improve
 
for your pussy cat.
 
Take care,Sandraxx
 
 
 
 

 

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

Dearest Lilwings( and everyone else),
           First thank you for your suggestions. I'm waiting to hear from the specialist, since he's suppose to be returning today. I will ask him about what you suggested, since our regular vet won't do a thing. It just gets me so angry, she knows how I feel about my fur babies. Maybe she thinks I'm just a crazy person feeling this way, but I don't care, they are my family and I'll do anything to make them feel better. I gave her a pepcid before she went to bed and she didn't seem to have an upset stomach this morning. She did refuse her food and even tuna again- goes and looks at it and walks away.So I gave her a jar of turkey baby food. Today she had more fight in her, at one point she was refusing to open her mouth, but I won out. She then went and got a drink and laid down on her house( it's her carrier, but she uses it as a house) and she seemed more content. I think her eyes looked a little brighter today too. I did one thing different yesterday, I gave her the denosyl at 10 am and again at 10 pm, so I'm thinking this may be helping her too. I have to believe in my heart she still has more quaility time left. I pray to God to give her more time after all she's been through in such a short life. She's not giving up and neither am I. I just hope we are at some kind of turning point for the better. Thank you all for your kindness and allowing me to ramble on. Some people just don't understand what it's like to be all alone in the world with just your fur family for comfort and support. I know my mother is watching over her and I ask her to help me make her well too.Thanks again to you all, and may God Bless you each and every day.Debbie

I hope this works, not sure how to post a picture. Here is one of her with my mother............

Debbie, how lovely of you to post the picture!! They really do look as if they have a special bond.
 
And what a very pretty little cat Fluffy is. So sweet. I hope you still have some time left with her.
 
Everyone here will be anxious to know how you posted the picture as we all struggle with it.
 
with Love, Jude

Love is the only way

Dear Debbie,
 
Thank you for posting this picture, Fluffy guarding your mother! She certainly has the right name, judging from the picture.
 
I hope you'll get the needed help from the specialist.
 
Much love,
Edda

Peace and joy!

Debbie, the photo of your mother and Fluffy is beautiful.  A loss such as that of a dear mother is devistating.  I will light another candle for Fluffy.  I am sorry that the vet is not being sensitive to Fluffy being family.  Of course she is family.  As you put it, your fur baby. I am glad that you will be consulting with a specialist.  God bless Fluffy, your mom and you.  liliwings

Hi Debbie,
 
Fluffy is so fluffy!
She is beautiful!
Lovely Picture of your mom and Fluffy!
Thanks for sharing it!
 
Hope today she is willing to eat!
 
Thank you for the update...I am hoping the specialist can help her, too.
Lighting another candle for her and you under Fluff.
 
I have a cat named Puff.... she is gray and white also but more gray than white....
 
Peace, Love and Joy,
Diane

Grateful to be here!
What a gift and connection builder!
Love and Gratitude,
Love who You Are

Thank you Debbie,
for sharing the dear, dear photographs of Fluffy and your mother.
It feels good to share a little of the ones we love, doesn't it?
I'm sure you miss your mother very much . . .
even as the pain lessens, you will always miss her,
later with more love than sorrow . . .
it just takes time to heal.
. . . hoping that Fluffy is eating a little better today
and that you were able to take her in to the specialist
with love . . .
sparrow

everything counts... ♥