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lilsparrow

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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 7/31/2009 8:04 AM ( #181 )
How good to see you back
dear Joya . . .
I can see that your life has been a whirlwind
(as usual )
but I pray
that you remember
to take care of yourself.
'Me' time will nourish you
so that you can better nourish others
with love . . .
sparrow
everything counts...
buttington

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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 7/31/2009 8:08 AM ( #182 )
Dearest Joya,
Do please listen to all the advice so lovingly given here! YOU are the most important person (which ever way you look at it) in your houshold, so it is important that you look after yourself.
When I was young I too thought I could defy the laws of nature, but nature knows best and will soon give you a kick if you don't behave!
The others are right...older children enjoy a bit of responsibility, and it does teach them life skills.
 
So go and get that doctor's check-up to put your mind at rest, and......slow down!
 
with Love,
Jude
Love is the only way
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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 9/16/2009 3:13 PM ( #183 )
if anyone has missed the topic i started about Joya being extremely ill, please see it here:
 
 
^click on the little dash as it would not allow me to enter text for some reason
 
May God Speed Joya to a full and complete recovery.
 
karen
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mamaluvskids

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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/7/2009 9:43 PM ( #184 )
Dearest All, I would appreciate your thoughts and prayers the next few days as this is going to be a very heard weekend for us. As you all know, in April I lost Kelsey to a miscarriage. This coming Monday, the 9th of November was suppose to be Kelsey's due date. We know that Kelsey would have already probably would have been in our loving arms right now as all my babies came early. We are having such a hard time accepting that Kelsey was not meant to be here with us on earth. My kids are really taking this hard too so any prayers would be appreciated. I never thought that this would be so hard....  It is so very hard to accept that we will NEVER get to hold Kelsey on this earth... The hurt and the pain NEVER goes away... On Monday, we will be realeasing balloons in Kelsey's honor. I have decided to let the kids write their own message to Kelsey on them. I am hoping that this will help ease some of the pain we feel. We can NEVER bring Kelsey back, but knowing that Kelsey is looking down on us and that my other angel babies are too helps... Thanks for reading this. I am so hurt tonight. There are not enough words to describe the way I feel I hurt tonight. I am very thankful for my other living kids please don't get me wrong. I guess maybe that is why I miss Kelsey more as I know so much more of what I am missing out on with Kelsey. Thanks for reading this... Love  to all!
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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/7/2009 9:56 PM ( #185 )
Dearest Joya,
 
My heart goes out to you and your family as this difficult date comes around. I think releasing the balloons with their personal messages will be helpful to your children. You miss having Kelsey in your midst terribly. I think Kelsey is close to you and looking after you.
 
I will light a candle for you!
 
Wishing you comfort and peace,
 
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda
Peace and joy!
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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/7/2009 11:06 PM ( #186 )
Dearest Joya,
 
My thoughts are with you right now seeing and feeling how your heart is broken open once again.Somethings are hard to accept and the loss of a dear wanted child is one of them.
 
Your little Kelsey lives on Joya inside of you and I am sure she will help carry you through the next few days.
 
My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time.
 
Take good care Joya and I too think it's a lovely idea to float balloons up to Kelsey ...
 

 
 
Little Snowdrop

The world may never notice
If a Snowdrop doesn't bloom,
Or even pause to wonder
If the petals fall too soon.
But every life that ever forms,
Or ever comes to be,
Touches the world in some small way
For all eternity.
The little one we long for
Was swiftly here and gone.
But the love that was then planted
Is a light that still shines on.
And though our arms are empty,
Our hearts know what to do.
Every beating of our hearts
Says of our love for you.
~ Author Unknown

~   ~ ~ 
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/7/2009 11:54 PM ( #187 )
mamaluvskids


Dearest All, I would appreciate your thoughts and prayers the next few days as this is going to be a very heard weekend for us. As you all know, in April I lost Kelsey to a miscarriage. This coming Monday, the 9th of November was suppose to be Kelsey's due date. We know that Kelsey would have already probably would have been in our loving arms right now as all my babies came early. We are having such a hard time accepting that Kelsey was not meant to be here with us on earth. My kids are really taking this hard too so any prayers would be appreciated. I never thought that this would be so hard....  It is so very hard to accept that we will NEVER get to hold Kelsey on this earth... The hurt and the pain NEVER goes away... On Monday, we will be realeasing balloons in Kelsey's honor. I have decided to let the kids write their own message to Kelsey on them. I am hoping that this will help ease some of the pain we feel. We can NEVER bring Kelsey back, but knowing that Kelsey is looking down on us and that my other angel babies are too helps... Thanks for reading this. I am so hurt tonight. There are not enough words to describe the way I feel I hurt tonight. I am very thankful for my other living kids please don't get me wrong. I guess maybe that is why I miss Kelsey more as I know so much more of what I am missing out on with Kelsey. Thanks for reading this... Love  to all!


Dear Joya: I wanted to let you know I won't quit praying. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
 
(HUG)
Praying for friends~
Missing a lost friend~
Kelly C
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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/8/2009 4:26 AM ( #188 )
Dearest Joya,
thinking of you at this difficult time, and with you all in spirit as you release the balloons.
 
thank you Sandra for the heart-felt poem.
 
with Love,
Jude
Love is the only way
lilsparrow

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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/8/2009 8:05 AM ( #189 )
Dear, dear Joya . . .
I pray that your pain be eased
as your balloons fly towards heaven.
Little Kelsey is surely loved
and will always be remembered,
even as God remembers the snowdrop
that never came to bloom . . .
with much love . . .
sparrow
everything counts...
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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/9/2009 7:35 AM ( #190 )
Thinking of you all today dear Joya...
 

                                        
The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love~and be loved in return♥♥  


 

mamaluvskids

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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/11/2009 1:47 AM ( #191 )
Dearest Sandra, Edda, Kelly C, Jude, and LilSparrow, thanks for the continuing support at this hard time in our lives. We really appreciate the love and support and the candles. This weekend has been so hard. Yesterday was the hardest obvioulsy. The kids did write on the balloons to Kelsey and we hope that Kelssy has seen them by now. Kelsey along with our 2 other angel babies will always be love and forever in our hearts. Please just continue to pray for us (especially me as I am having a problem with my anger and depression etc. ) I am so angry right now and I know that this is not right.  Thanks again for reading this and all your posts to me. You all here are such very special people. I don't know what I would do without my gratefulness family. Sending my love to each and every one of you.
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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/11/2009 2:01 AM ( #192 )
Dear Joya,

I´ve been thinking of and praying for you during the past days. The ritual with the balloons must have been really special; you can trust that so much love reached Kelsey! Please, dear Joya, don´t be angry at yourself for feeling angry! It is the most natural thing in the world. No feeling of ours should be suppressed. There´s a need behind every feeling, so we do well to look at it and see how we can meet it. Having worked through it, we can then let go of it, when the time is right...

Do take care and be as gentle with yourself as possible!

Love and Blessings,
Juliana

"Speak Peace in a World of Conflict" (M.B.Rosenberg)
buttington

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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/11/2009 5:24 AM ( #193 )
Dear Joya,
I agree with everything Juliana has said. One day at a time.....
 
with Love,
Jude
Love is the only way
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Re:Can you light a candle for me - 11/11/2009 7:16 AM ( #194 )
Joya, prayers of comfort and strength for you and your loved ones.
Amen
Glenys x
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