My son Robby

Just want to thank everyone for such a sincere kind welcome.
I have gone to a few forums/chats before and left b/c of phonies, and nonsense.  People pretending to have lost children.  I am an Independent Bail Enforcement Agent (bonuty hunter) here in TN and used some of the resources I know to research public records and found at least two women (who could have been men, kids, who knows) that did not lose the child that they said.
It is hard enough to live through my own stuff and I try to be supportive of anyone in a similiar situation, which then takes me through my stuff all over again.  But, to find out that they are pretending.  Not only on one forum/chat but many.

This seems like a nice "home" and I am glad there is a moderator who is actually involved. 

Lynn I will take the pack not to make each other cry anymore.  Pinky swear. LOL

Hope hope Robby looks down with pride on what he gave to this world.  Not all men get the chance to leave a legacy.  I hope that his children feel his love and a butterfly kiss or two also.  Maybe one for mom also.

You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Going to light a candle now.  One for John and one for all of you.

Theresa

Thank you, Theresa! I am sorry you had such negative experiences with some forums. I hope this will never happen here. It is so sad, when some abuse the trust of others and toy with their feelings, and perhaps even exploit them. I think they must be very unhappy people to need such avenues to get some deceptive pleasure.
I will light a candle for you and John in the ALL group.
 
Much love and warm hugs,
Edda

Peace and joy!

I agree with you Theresa about those people who lie on the forums, it really does hurt. You pour your heart out and then there's someone there to break it again. I'm sorry that you had to go thru that. The other place that I used to go caught a few people in the rooms. One had said such terrible things to a Mom who lost her newborn. That person scared her off, and we all felt horrible.

Sounds like you have an interesting job. You must meet some characters in your line of work. Be careful out there.

Prayers for you and John. And thank you for yours for us.

Pinky swear. lol

DREAM WITH YOUR HEART!!

Dear Theresa and Lynn, Your "Pinky Swear" made me smile. Theresa, Welcome to the forum. It is so sad that you have had some really painful experiences on other forums. There is no doubt that both John and Robby are very close to both of you as Tim is to me. It has been so long ago that Tim died, yet as with both of you, sometimes, it seems like it was only yesterday. May you both sense how closely each of you are held in their hearts, care and love. Edda, I am sure it must have been very difficult for you to watch so many and go through such pain. I am sure you felt the anger of many parents when there was nothing you, as a doctor could do. It is always so difficult when it is a little one.
For all of you.(((((((((((((((((Robby and Lynn, Theresa and John and Edda))))))))))))))))))).

May you be blessed.

Yesterday is gone forever.Tomorrow may not come. Live Fully each moment today. Look for Good Things that Happen to you Every Day.

Imenuff,
YOU made me cry.  Now we need apack.  I will bend and twist your pinky if you make me cry again.  I do enuff of that on my own.  I like your login name. I wish I were enuff for me.  I feel like iI'm in a hole that the sand was sucked out of looking up waiting for it to fill up on me.  Not that I don't want it.  If it will get me to John, I will go anyway I can.  No complaints.  Not even an ouch.
But, beign Catholic, you can't do it intentionally, so here I wait for mother nature or a train. LOL

If there are any dad's on here, I hope you enjoyed your special day and got to tuck your child in.  Or better yet watch them tuck their child in and see how good a job you did in raising them.
Heartfelt thoughts for all.
Ntie,
Theresa

Shadow

Thank you.
I do not know what the ALL group is.  I will go search for it when I light John's candle next.
Theresa

Shadow

Theresa, when you go to candles click on "Search" in the left upper corner, then write in ALL into the lower blank marked Group Search and click, and it will take you there. The ALL group is available for lighting candles for those who don't have their own candle group. Do you have a group for John?

Love,
Edda

Peace and joy!

Edda,
Thank you.  I found out last night.  I thought it might be "private".  a group that you needed to be "invited" to. 
Thanks for ALL of your help, thoughts and kindness.

Theresa

(((((((((Betty and Tim))))))))
Thank you!
Love, Lynn xo

DREAM WITH YOUR HEART!!

Dear Theresa, your post made me smile again!! PLEASE, PLEASE don't bend and twist pinky. I still have a whole floor of tile to grout and won't make it without her. Dear One, you are TOTALLY ENOUGH!! May I please call you "YURENUFF" because YOU ARE ENOUGH even though you don't believe it. There is this YURENUFF inside that is the Holy One’s dream for you, the person God always dreamed you would become, as long as it takes, as imperfectly and painfully as it's happening. The Holy One KNOWS THAT YOU ARE THE PERFECT ONE to become this dream and no one else could ever become this dream as well as you can. I started today posting on Gratitude Challenged in “Grateful Living Practice” forum. Through prayer and “pinky swear” , I am now ready to move into the day. Yes, at times, life is very painful and it was for Jesus, too—YOU ARE NOT ALONE but have Someone who has been in that well also and is there to help raise you up and help carry that pain. When you cry, the Holy One shares in your tears, feels your pain and will bring you through it for there is a dream for YURENUFF and no one can become that dream as beautifully as you can. (I hope I didn’t break our first “pinky swear.” Promise, I will try harder next time.) Have a blessed day for TRULY YURENUFF!!!!

Yesterday is gone forever.Tomorrow may not come. Live Fully each moment today. Look for Good Things that Happen to you Every Day.

Lynn, Dear, thank you for the hug for Tim and me. Back at you a hundredfold for you and Robby. May you experience his love for you in each bit of new life you see this spring and summer.

Yesterday is gone forever.Tomorrow may not come. Live Fully each moment today. Look for Good Things that Happen to you Every Day.