Dear Arow,
I idendify with what you say about being 'connected' to people. I felt instantly connected to certain of the people I met on this site and you were one of them.

Accept it!!!
I believe we are ALL conected, but we feel more so with some people than others of course. Also, we all have something to offer and we all have something we can learn from each other.
Man (or woman) is not an island. We do need others. I've said it before, but I'll say it again

"Giving and receiving is the same." By giving, we ourselves benefit in many ways, and by receiving, we give a gift to the giver; that of being able to give their gift. I know some poeple who find it difficult to receive, but if you explain that, if they accept the gift, even if they don't want it

they are actually 'giving' pleasure to the giver. Then they are happier because they can see it as them giving something!!!! This was once a lightbulb moment for me, but I'm not good at explaining it.
I spent most of my life finding it difficult to share, (things or myself) but I'm finding it easier these days, and actually enjoy it now.
I also get misunderstood. I'm quite forthright sometimes, and fortunately people don't seem to get upset! As a healer I often 'see' what people need to hear, and usually I don't beat about the bush. Although she may not always like what I say, a friend often asks me what I think because she knows I will be truthful. (not unkind)
But this can be misconstrued as being cold, and I'm anything but cold. Not easy.
Finally, I'm not always grateful for the challenges life throws up for me.




Love J