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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/10/2008 8:09:25 AM   
buttington

 

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Dear Barbara,
What a moving and heartfelt poem! Beautiful.

I realized fairly early in my adult life what a great gift my Mother gave to me in her own attitude to unmarried mothers. As a child I had quite rigid views on what was right and wrong (I've since learned different views ) and felt my Mother was unusually liberal and tollerant for her generation. Until, that is, I discovered how innocent she had been as a young woman, and didn't know how babies were made!! Of course, my Father took advantage of her and she became pregnant with my eldest Sister, who was a twin. The twin died soon after birth. Imagine the shock and trauma of my poor Mother, who not only didn't know she was pregnant, but had a difficult birth and lost one of her babies. She never told me all this, but one of my Sisters enlightened me. From then on I had a lot of admiration for my Mother, and understood her attitude to others in her situation. It changed my views overnight.

I don't know what you think, but I guess Mary, our Lady, was really an unmarried mother herself. You would think the church would be more compassionate wouldn't you?

Love, Jude

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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/13/2008 3:47:55 PM   
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I am so glad that you have decided to keep the baby. You do need to start getting more rest and start taking better care of yourself. ( I know that it's hard when you have no help) Also, please continue to lean on us if you need to talk. I'm sure you will find a bunch of loving people ready to cheer you up.  I hope that in the future you will be able to feel safe enough to leave your boyfried and find a safe place to live where you will have plenty of friends. Please take care of yourself. We will be looking for up-dates on you and the baby and praying for you as well.  Please let us know if you need anything. God bless you and your neww bundle of joy!
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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/18/2008 11:28:26 PM   
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I wanted to let everyone know I had the baby. She was born on thursday the 14th. She is doing wonderful. And I am feeling so much beter in my heart. She has made my heart feel complete. And daddy has started to come around. I wont stop him. But I know we cant be together. Its just not in are best intrest.

here is a photo..
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2nc2ro6&s=4
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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/18/2008 11:48:58 PM   
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Dear Angella, I am so happy for you! Your little girl is beautiful! Thank you for the picture! I'll light a candle for you both in gratitude and continue praying for you that all will be well!

Much love and warm hugs for you and your children,
Edda

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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/19/2008 5:24:30 AM   
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Dear Angella,

What joy to see the photo of your beautiful baby girl! It makes me very happy to know she was born and you are happy. I am also going to light a candle for all of you.

Much Love,
Juliana
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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/19/2008 8:04:49 AM   
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Dear Angela,

How beautiful is that?!!! You must be so proud, and we are proud of you.

Love, Jude

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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/19/2008 8:32:26 AM   
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Dear Angela
I have sent prayers to St Gerard the saint of expectant and new mothers to help you as you face the miracle of birth. Your daughter is perfect and welcome her to the world what a beautiful gift and you will be a beautiful mother as long as you keep your focus on the beauty this holds Please love her father from a distance and keep in mind people with prayer can change even the hardest thoughts can soften but your safety and serentiy must always be your priority Many Blessings to you I have enclosed a poem I wrote to my daughters when they were born they read it often as they grew with me and my Mom intheir fathers absence. As young womwn n his maturity he became a wonderful father and grandfather.
Namaste
Barbara T
 
 
 
“Your Father”
 
 
Your father loves you , yes he does
Although he is not near as the sun rises above
He may never caress you to his chest
He always knows you are in my nest
 
 
 
                                                       Your father loved you yes he did
                                                       Although he knew he was just a kid
                                                       The years for you to grow were slow
                                                       He thought he could never learn to help
                                                       you grow
 
 
Your father loves you, yes he does
He entrusted you to my sincere love
For my love grows and grows
No matter how our life goes
 
 
 
 
                                               And  as the sun sets in the night
                                              Regardless that you are not in his sight
                                              His heart will always sing your name
                                              Until  a man he can return again.
written by
Barbara DeHart-Titone
1983


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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/20/2008 12:18:48 AM   
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I'm so thrilled, happy, and elated for you, Angela.  Wish my computer would behave so I could see the photos of your baby girl. 
Take care of yourself.

Lots  hugs,
Kit
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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/20/2008 11:12:58 AM   
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Jeremiah 29:11 (New King James Version) 11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.


Hi Angela, I am happy for you. What a cute, beautiful baby! Thanks God!
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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/20/2008 11:18:27 AM   
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Welcome to the forum, Vicky! I am sure Angella will appreciate your kind words.
I hope you will visit often and share with us whatever you would like.

With every good wish,
Edda

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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 8/21/2008 9:33:32 AM   
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Hi Angelia,
Good luck with your new baby... when things are at there worst remember, God is right beside you!
He has blessed you with a true miracle... life isn't always easy but he has given you a very special gift from above... Love it ,Cherish it, & be the best mother you can be!!!
God Bless You & your Children
Holly
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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 9/15/2008 8:43:39 PM   
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Congratulations, Angela!! 
Your little baby daughter is beautiful.

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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 9/16/2008 2:02:25 PM   
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I am so happy for you on your new bundle of joy. I am also so very glad that you've decided to keep your daughter. I thank God that ya'll both are ok. I'm glad to also hear that the baby's daddy has decided to come around. Maybe he has had a change of heart as for you, go with your gut feeling. Don't take any crap off of him. the main thing is that you stay healthy, happy and safe and that you have good friends and a support system. Thanks again for the up-dates. Please continue to stay in touch. Always remember that we are here for you. 
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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 9/24/2008 9:23:46 PM   
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Dear Angela, I am new to this site and yours is the first post thst i have read. I just wanted you to know that I will be lighting a candle for you and your children. Your story touched me deeply. I hope that our prayers here have given you the courage to decide what you are going to do with your future with your babies. It can be tough  but i know with Love in your heart your children will not want for anything. God Bless you darl <3. 
Sita
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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 9/24/2008 9:47:31 PM   
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Welcome to the forum, Sita!

Thank you for your compassionate response to Angella!
I hope you will visit often and share with us your experience and wisdom.

Wishing you everything good,
Edda



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RE: Please light a candle for me. - 9/28/2008 7:21:19 AM   
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Thank you so much Angella for posting the lovely pic of your newborn, I am so glad for you, and have been thinking of you... So happy to as you seem so much happier and brighter! Godlove you all and I'll join Edda in lighting a candle for you to say thanks and to ask for all will be well for you all.
love and light
Gina and Jackoryx
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