buttington
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Dear Barbara, What a moving and heartfelt poem! Beautiful. I realized fairly early in my adult life what a great gift my Mother gave to me in her own attitude to unmarried mothers. As a child I had quite rigid views on what was right and wrong (I've since learned different views ) and felt my Mother was unusually liberal and tollerant for her generation. Until, that is, I discovered how innocent she had been as a young woman, and didn't know how babies were made!! Of course, my Father took advantage of her and she became pregnant with my eldest Sister, who was a twin. The twin died soon after birth. Imagine the shock and trauma of my poor Mother, who not only didn't know she was pregnant, but had a difficult birth and lost one of her babies. She never told me all this, but one of my Sisters enlightened me. From then on I had a lot of admiration for my Mother, and understood her attitude to others in her situation. It changed my views overnight. I don't know what you think, but I guess Mary, our Lady, was really an unmarried mother herself. You would think the church would be more compassionate wouldn't you? Love, Jude
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