Gratefulness Forum

All Forums - Search - Register - Member List - Calendars - FAQ - Gratefulness.org

Login - My Profile - Inbox - Address Book - My Subscription - My Forums - Logout

The abused children no law chooses to protect......

 
View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
Users viewing this topic: none
  Printable Version
All Forums >> [Forums] >> Light A Candle >> The abused children no law chooses to protect...... Page: [1]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
The abused children no law chooses to protect...... - 5/19/2007 12:55:06 PM   
Teardropsforkatelynn

 

Posts: 3
Joined: 5/19/2007
Status: offline
What would you do?

Sugar and spice and everything nice.

This is suppose to be every little girls life.

What happens when life is not like that?

What if the people who are suppose to protect you fill your life with constant abuse?

For little Katelynn of Indiana, her life is filled with this from a father, stepmother and father's family; everyone but her the relatives that love her have been denied the ability to see her.

What happens when the police will not stop this?

Than try Child Protection Service, but they will not stop this either.

The next thing to do is go to the court.

What would you do if the Child Protection Services and the court helped the abusers hurt her?

The media might work but they ignore majority of average people.

In this search for help, several politicians ignored or said stop bothering them.

If these people will not help little katelynn than who will?

Will this little girl have to pay the ultimate price for these adults’ mistakes?

Now…,what will you do?!

This is Indiana's Shame and these are Teardrops for Katelynn

referral sources:
www.courageouskids.net

Mary Kay Ash Charitable Foundation :: Breaking the Silence: Children's Stories Aired on PBS http://www.mkacf.org/BreakTheSilence.html

Breaking the Silence
http://sev.prnewswire.com/entertainment/20051019/CLW50819102005-1.html
http://www.tatgelasseur.com/pages/bts.html

Battered Women, Abused Children, and Child Custody: A NATIONAL CRISIS
http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/

Petition for Justice for Katelynn:
http://www.gopetition.com/online/5918.html

Don't let these little abused children be abused in silence anymore, please! Tell someone! Demand answers!Demand the children's truth!Above all break through this silence for theses abused children’s sake! No adult’s rights are greater than the right of the child to be safe!
Post #: 1
RE: The abused children no law chooses to protect...... - 5/19/2007 10:20:31 PM   
Hildegard

 

Posts: 2653
Joined: 8/30/2006
From: Chicago
Status: offline
Welcome to the forum! You are courageous in taking on a very difficult problem. In custody battles often the children are the ones who lose. Ideally the courts should decide what is in the best interest of the child, but mistakes are made, and subsequently nobody seems to want to listen. If one has the opportunity to know all the details on all sides, one can form an opinion and lend support to the ones wronged. I understand your frustration, when nobody wants to take another look and evaluate the decisions made.
I pray that your work bear fruit and help wronged children,
Edda

_____________________________

Peace and joy!
Post #: 2
RE: The abused children no law chooses to protect...... - 5/21/2007 6:04:52 AM   
Emil

 

Posts: 285
Joined: 4/4/2007
From: Rosenberg, TX
Status: offline
I will light a candle under 'Jesus' for Katelynn and all who are abused, and one for you for bringing further light to this matter.

God bless,
Emil
Post #: 3
RE: Dear Edda and Emil, - 5/22/2007 1:14:58 PM   
Teardropsforkatelynn

 

Posts: 3
Joined: 5/19/2007
Status: offline
Thank you so much for your supportive emails. I understand only one truth and that is the children's truth. The site links are reference to case after case of battered women loosing custody to their abuser's this statistic is at 75% that is documented through I think loislaw ,I think. This is happening in cases of systematic demonstrated  long term documented abause via medical reports, child psy. reports and much more of small children being battered,sodimized and more horrific than that! These small children in 75% of the time are given to their abusers!
Below is what some of the mothers have filed a human rights violation:







Published on May 14, 2007 -Alleged Violations of the Declaration of the Duties and Rights of Ma

Published on May 14, 2007 ..:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />

Alleged Violations of the Declaration of the Duties and Rights of Man
http://stopfamilyviolence.org/ocean/host.php?page=470


While state courts are responsible for custody cases, the federal government is responsible to ensure that their judicial systems operate in accordance with the Organization of American States Declaration of the Rights and Duties of Man .  The specific articles the petitioners claim have been violated are: 
Article I. Every human being has the right to life, liberty and the security of his person.
The courts place the children directly in danger without regard to their right to life, liberty or security of person.  In addition, often the arrangements made for visitation are unsafe to the mother as well. 
Article II. All persons are equal before the law and have the rights and duties established in this Declaration, without distinction as to race, sex, language, creed or any other factor.
The gender discrimination both in the courts in general and in custody cases in particular has been known, studied and proven for years.  The gender bias studies in the 1980's showed bias that has never been corrected.  The studies of custody have shown that it is a complete myth that women get custody over men or that men are disfavored in family court.  It is such a pervasive myth that years of litigation and proof has not shaken it  - to the harm of the victims of violence. 
Article IV. Every person has the right to freedom of investigation, of opinion, and of the expression and dissemination of ideas, by any medium whatsoever.
Litigants, especially mothers, who report child abuse are punished with jail or the loss of custody of their children.  The protective parents are in a Catch 22 situation.  If they do not protect their children, they are charged with failure to protect and the child protection agencies take their children.  If they do act to protect, the courts put the children directly into the arms of the abuser.   
Article V. Every person has the right to the protection of the law against abusive attacks upon his honor, his reputation, and his private and family life.
Often the protective parents who report abuse are labeled mentally ill or diagnosed with such imaginative syndromes as parental alienation or munchhausen's by proxy. Often they are ordered into counseling or in the case of one petitioner, taken to the mental hospital.
Article VI. Every person has the right to establish a family, the basic element of society, and to receive protection therefor.
By separating the protective parents from their children for no valid reason, the parent is denied the right to establish a family.  Some of these petitioners have not seen their children for six years.  Every single petitioner was denied contact with their child for some period of time though none was ever proven to have harmed them. 
Article VII. All women, during pregnancy and the nursing period, and all children have the right to special protection, care and aid.
Often battering begins during pregnancy yet special protection is not afforded the mothers, even when they have an order of protection.  Much research has proven that children of abusers are likely to be abused themselves and have a higher rate of sexual molest.  Yet courts continue to refuse to protect the children. The U.S. Supreme Court decided in the DeSheney case that the state does not owe any right of protection to children even when they know of the abuse and have in fact placed that child in that home with the father.  This is in plain violation of the Declaration. 
Article XVIII. Every person may resort to the courts to ensure respect for his legal rights. There should likewise be available to him a simple, brief procedure whereby the courts will protect him from acts of authority that, to his prejudice, violate any fundamental constitutional rights.
The lack of due process in family court is legion.  Ex parte hearings and communications, decisions without hearings, refusal to admit the mother, refusal to admit evidence of violence is rampant in the cases and violates the most basic principles of due process.  Little attention or time is given to these decisions that shape a child's life forever. 

Article XXIV. Every person has the right to submit respectful petitions to any competent authority, for reasons of either general or private interest, and the right to obtain a prompt decision thereon.
The gender bias studies of the 1980's showed that courts are not competent when dealing with women.  Unfortunately, things have not improved.  In spite of training, legislation and lobbying, judges continue to ignore statutes that mandate no custody to abusers.  The petitioners have tried to hold the judges accountable by appeal or disciplinary procedures, all to no avail. 
Article XXV No person may be deprived of his liberty except in the cases and according to the procedures established by pre-existing law. 
The many children who are put directly into harms way by being placed with an abuser or molester are deprived of their liberty.  When courts ignore evidence of violence, they are not following pre-existing law.  It is commonplace for judges to completely ignore state statutes that mandate that custody will not go to a perpetrator thereby violating state law as well as putting children in danger.
Article XXX. It is the duty of every person to aid, support, educate and protect his minor children, and it is the duty of children to honor their parents always and to aid, support and protect them when they need it.
These petitioners have tried to protect their children.  It is the courts that have prohibited them.  The cost to both child and parent is overwhelming and devastating. 
The Gonzales case, also filed at the InterAmerican Commission, illustrates the failure of the American justice system to protect battered women and children.  That case dealt with the failure of the police department.  This case deals with legal abuse  - the failure of the legal system, the courts, the guardians ad litem, the attorneys for the children, the state protective agencies to both follow the law and to protect the helpless children who face the horror of violence daily. 


 















Thank you so for your caring and if you can pray for little katelynn and the others like her I would thank you. I hope God will keep her safe till she can just be a child again. Bless you both for listening and caring!
Teardrops for katelynn

_____________________________

Indiana's shame teardrops for katelynn
Post #: 4
RE:Dear Hildegard - 5/22/2007 1:23:45 PM   
Teardropsforkatelynn

 

Posts: 3
Joined: 5/19/2007
Status: offline
Thank you for your support. I tell little katelynn's brother " we may not make a difference but if we don't at least try than we will for sure never help little katelynn!"  Bless you kind lady for putting that up. I have not always had kind things said and it is very nice of you to take the time to do that. It means something to me! I just hoped to light a candle for little katelynn, me and her brother miss her so.  Sometimes I yammer to much sorry about that. I just mean thank you and kindness , well I am not always use to it kind of disarms me than I yammer on trying to figure out what to say to kindness and than I just should stop so I will.
But anyway thank you!

Teardropsforkatelynn
" In Rama was heard a great wailing and lamentation!
  It was Rachel and she shall not be comforted!
  For her children are not...........................!"

_____________________________

Indiana's shame teardrops for katelynn
Post #: 5
Page:   [1]
All Forums >> [Forums] >> Light A Candle >> The abused children no law chooses to protect...... Page: [1]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




© Gratefulness.org. Forum Software © ASPPlayground.NET