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Husband wants to call it quits - 5/19/2007 8:26:15 PM

Ellen

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My husband is just tired of being married. He keeps all of his complains to himself. Please light a candle for us. We are both teachers and with summer break coming, he might either decide to move or stay.

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/19/2007 9:52:42 PM

Hildegard

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Welcome to the forum, Ellen! I am sorry about your difficulties in your marriage. Perhaps you have already been through counseling. If not, it might help you gain clarity in your relationship. I will certainly keep you in my prayers. I hope you don't mind my starting a candle group for you under "Ellen". I also hope you can find here some of the support you need at this difficult time for you.
With every good wish,
Edda

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/20/2007 12:09:21 AM

Faith

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Hello Ellen, first of all be strong and don't put your head down for any man, you should take some time and sit down and talk to him, try to find out his reasons, put yourself in his shoes, don't give up until you both try some marriage counseling. do you have kids? I will pray for you tonigh and also light a candle for both of you, many blessings

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laughter without sorrow,
sun without rain, but
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strength for the day,
comfort for the tears,
and light for the way.

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/20/2007 11:59:30 PM

Ellen

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Faith and Hidegard, thanks so much for your support. I am grateful for your concern and sympathy!!

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/21/2007 12:12:24 AM

Faith

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Ellen you are not alone, I am going thu difficult time with my husband too, after so many years I still find a reason to keep trying.
you will be in my prayers Ellen, and come by to see how everything goes. Hugs

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God didn't promise days without pain,
laughter without sorrow,
sun without rain, but
He did promise
strength for the day,
comfort for the tears,
and light for the way.

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/21/2007 5:43:53 AM

Emil

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Ellen: I will pray for your situation, and hope that one day you and your husband will look back at this trying times and find it ultimately made your bond stronger.

God bless you and all your loved ones.
Emil

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/21/2007 5:44:12 PM

China Doll

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Hi Ellen,
I will lite a candle and also lifted you and your husband up in prayer, where is the committment these days we invest time and energy and in people life but it is not in vain, all thing work together for good for those who love the Lord. Things do not happen by mistake it is time to be prayerful and ask God for the union to be restore and that you have peace in your spirit. God will give you the strenght to deal with situration. Be bless, IN JESUS NAME I PRAY

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/23/2007 12:11:44 AM

Ellen

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You all are so eloquent and have such a calm way. Thanks. Today he is requesting more counseling. Last time I felt like he hoped he would get support from the psychologist to give up. I hope it is not a continuation of last time. I am thankful that he evenbrought it up though. Please pray for the next session that it is not just a wrestling match with words. Thanks again.
Ellen

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/23/2007 7:07:50 AM

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Adding my prayers that you and your husband will be able to resolve your current troubles and re connect with the love you have shared for so many years. Bless You

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/23/2007 7:09:53 AM

celtic star

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Praying for peace, strength and hope for you both

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/23/2007 8:30:48 AM

Hildegard

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Welcome to the forum, Glenys! Thank you for joining us in praying for each other whatever our needs may be. We all can add our support and any experience we may have.
Wishing you everything good,
Edda

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Peace and joy!

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 5/23/2007 1:59:26 PM

Lori

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Ellen, I will keep you and your husband in my prayers.

Blessings,

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 6/22/2007 4:25:59 PM

arows1faith

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I have lit a candle for you and pray your needs will be met.

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 6/22/2007 6:18:23 PM

buttington

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Dear Ellen,

I was going through what you are experiencing now, 10 years ago. My marriage didn't survive. There was no problem between us - my husband just fancied being single again. After 36 years together! Hard to understand at the time, but now I know everything works out for the best.

I hope life has some great happiness in store for you what ever happens.
Love J

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 6/22/2007 10:10:50 PM

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I agree with your message to Ellen. //What is the difference between threads and forums,I can't find any reply's ? Thanks China34doll

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 6/22/2007 10:55:44 PM

Hildegard

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Welcome, JudyAnn! To answer your question:
When you click New Post you are starting a thread, when you click Reply you add to it. All the threads together are the forum. This one is the Light a Candle Forum. If you click on top (Forums) you will discover that there are others as well.
I hope this helps,
With every good wish, Edda

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Peace and joy!

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 6/24/2007 12:18:11 AM

Vicky

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Ellen
I just lit a candle for you. There are rough times in every marriage. I've been married 35 yrs. There were lots of times that I was ready to give up, but God helped us find a way to go forward. Trust in God. He has all of the answers.

I will pray for you ;)

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 6/24/2007 2:26:10 AM

Bluemoon

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Ellen,
I will keep you and your husband in my prayers.
God Bless
Blue

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 6/27/2007 8:21:01 AM

Star5776

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Keeping you both in my prayers. May healing and love surround you both now and may God grant you with grace and forgiveness.

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RE: Husband wants to call it quits - 6/27/2007 3:59:03 PM