--Rick Warren, The Purpose-Driven Life Recently, I'd noticed the word 'priority' inter-woven among my thoughts. What is a priority? How do I rate the priorities I hold? When did my list of priorities get so long? What are the priorities of the people in my life? Do the people in my life compliment the priorities I hold dear? What is 'prioritize?'
Now, I'm a HUGE fan of words. I don't like to use a word just because it's the only one available; I need to
know the word, intimately. When I find that a certain word is prevalent in my thoughts, I stop and analyze why I'm using it, how it
conveys what I'm trying to say, and whether I'm using the word
respectfully. (That's an odd one, huh? Using a word in a 'respectful manner'... think about it.)
This was the case with the word priority. Instead of filling my days with 'things I have to get done,' I've decided to recategorize and redefine what my 'priorities' are. Seeing the above quote brought everything to clarity. I've refocused my priorities:
My purpose is to be the best person that I can be.
It is a priority for me that others can depend on my honesty, loyalty, and passion.
It is a priority for me to be more loving and less indifferent.
Do I really need more priorities than that? I don't think so. Yeah, it's important to go to work and pay bills, but these are not my purpose; not my priority. For me, a priority is something that is paramountly important today, next week, and even next year or the next decade. I can't define my purpose day to day or moment to moment. My purpose, and what I choose as a priority,