lilsparrow
Posts: 401
Joined: 9/15/2008
From: New York State USA
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Dear Betty . . . The place where we have our woodworking shop is not quite as romantic as you make it sound (it's in a section of an old apple barn), but since I read your post I am seeing it more as you described it! The ride in the country was wonderful . . . the colours were enough to make me catch my breath. I am reminded of how grateful I am to be in a place where I can really appreciate their beauty. By the way, your descriptions really bring to life in my mind's eye the splendor of autumn in New England. I'm so happy to hear that your cold is better, Jude. My cold never really materialized, maybe it was just something in the air that day . . . you must be having an Indian summmer, like we are, or do you have Indian summer in the UK? Please add my heartfelt congratulations Barbara, for getting your "Doctorate of Quitology". Smoking is one of the things that I myself, have been struggling with. I have quit several times, but something stressful and unexpected always caught me off guard. The first time it was the death of my first son, the second time was 9/11, and the third time was after the death of my father. This summer I have been working on it, was doing well, and backslid. I am back on track, but not totally free of them yet. Your message renews my inspiration to forge ahead over this last hump. Thank you so much. As a person dealing with this problem myself, I can appreciate the accomplishment it is. Lynn, I can see from your message that the event of your son, Robbie's widow getting married is very painful for you. I agree with Jude and Edda's hopes that you will be able to keep contact with his children, for your son does live on through his children. I am sorry that your wounds have been reopened, but please know that your feelings are not foolish. Can you allow yourself to feel that pain, honour it, and soften it with your love? Your daughter-in-law's marriage does not diminish or negate Robby's existence . . . you still carry him in your heart and always will. I will keep you and your sadness in my heart today. Edda, I hope you were able to get outside and enjoy the weather yesterday with Leon, or was it raining in Chicago? Are your farmer's markets still going strong? We have a very small farmer's market, but many wonderful roadside stands. Today I am grateful for this online community, as each one of you begin to take shape in my mind and heart. I feel I am beginning to know you individually through your writing styles and ways of expression. Thank you all for being here . . . with love . . . sparrow
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