buttington
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Juliana, In this instance, 'soul-mate' means, that every significant person who comes into our lives, (for however short or long a time) comes in order to teach us, (and also for us to teach them of course) Difficult people, even if we only encounter them for a few minutes, are there to help us learn something. Our soul knows what we need to learn. I don't believe anything happens by chance. Whether we learn from the encounters or not, depends on how we respond to them. I've learnt a huge amount from the relationships I have had with people, especially over the last 10 years or so. This has been the biggest learning curve of my entire life. Personally, I believe that ALL relationships, (friends, partners, children, neighbours, pets, teachers, priests, etc. etc.) are for us to learn from. Often it's the hardest ones, like that with my Son and ex-husband, which teach us the most. I've learned the most from my present partner, who I would truly call my soul-mate, but he is an enormous challenge too, as well as being the love of my life. No-one comes into our lives by chance. I hope this explains what I meant. I have to admit I had trouble with it when I first heard it! We tend to think of a soul-mate as being someone like us and with whom we feel totally 'at home', and they can be that of course, but they can come to challenge us too. Jude
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