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Claudita -> Please pray for love! (11/21/2006 5:09:27 PM)

Could you please pray for me and my love... we really need some prayers!

The whole story: My friend grew up as Jehova's witness and early learned to repress his feelings and his own will. He left the sect when he was grown up, but he can't really feel any feelings like sadness, anger, love now. We were together for 5,5 years and I helped him to love himself, to develope his own will and get over fears. It was sometimes hard for me that he couldn't express (and feel) his true love, but I was always strong cause I could feel his love and I always knew we were meant for each other by God.
On friday he left me.. he said I'd deserve someone who really loves me and that he still doesn't know what he really feels for me.
But I still feel his love and we still talk hours on the phone and are so close!

Please pray to God that he can find his feelings soon... that we can have our chance to be together for eternity... I know we're ment to and I will be patient.
It would mean so much to me if you could pray or light a candle (group C+S) for us, cause we both suffer from the situation. I hope you won't just say "forget about him" :(
I'll keep you up to date if there's any news. Thank you!



Hildegard -> RE: Please pray for love! (11/21/2006 11:06:07 PM)

Welcome, Claudita! You have come to the right place to get the support of prayers. Relationships are very complicated, especially the way yours seems to be. Has your love ever considered counseling? After a traumatic experience more than the love of friends may be needed to heal. Sometimes a separation may be necessary to clarify one's feelings.
I'll light a candle for you and him and keep you in my  prayers,
Edda



Claudita -> RE: Please pray for love! (11/22/2006 9:37:58 AM)

Thank you so much for your words and your prayer Edda... it really means a lot to me!
Yes, he is already having counseling (psychological). And he has had good success with a man last year, he helped him a lot. But it was an old man and he got sick and had to stopp the counseling, so my friend had to wait a long time and hasn't really found such a good psychologist again. So I hope and pray for him to find someone who really can help him. Thank you for praying... it's so important to me.



DreamSinger -> RE: Please pray for love! (11/26/2006 11:41:55 AM)

Dear Claudita, I would never ask you to forget about him, but I would ask you to remember you, your  heart, not just in what it feels, but in what is for its highest good. For we are stewards not only of the earth and one another, as brothers and sisters, but to the treasures that God placed within us - our beautiful, precious hearts.

I'm glad he has sought counseling before, and pray that the right counseling relationship will come along. But I, also, pray for you, that while it is good to be patient for love, it is not always good to "wait" for a specific person.

I hope I don't offend you with this, and I certainly am not saying I know what is best for you, one way or the other, but I do know that everyone must walk their own path, that we can't "make" anyone do or feel anything, and that sometimes our help and the gift we bring to others isn't in the form that we thought or would have liked.

I respect your love and what you feel for him. I'm just thinking about you. Your words remind me of ones I have spoken in the past. One of the things I have learned in my years is the tremendous value of trust...and that sometimes means, in letting go.

I know you will do what is best, and that you are divinely guided. I will keep you and the one you love in my prayers for a beautiful outcome for the highest good of all.

Be tender with yourself.



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