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Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/26/2008 4:52:00 AM)

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                 Imagine rolling down the highway in this car!
 
 




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/26/2008 5:16:45 AM)

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                                             Studebaker
 
 

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        1941 Studebaker
 
 
 
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                         1950 Studebaker
 
 
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                                           Studebaker
 
 
 
Video 1951 Studebaker
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ananda -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/26/2008 10:57:23 PM)

Marie!  Thanks again for all the your wonderful posts.  I particularily like the story "Just a few drops".  (very touching) and the pig car is too funny.  Thanks again.

Namaste!  Jessica




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/26/2008 11:43:46 PM)

Dancing Monkeys Video

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d2AN7kBQOsw&feature=related




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/27/2008 12:48:10 AM)

Are You a Carrot, An Egg Or A Coffee Bean?  [image]http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd94/carmical/FUNNY%20SHIT/CoolCarrot10063.gif[/image]  [image]http://i252.photobucket.com/albums/hh23/AnimeLeague_PA/Pokemon/Pokemon/Pokemon%20Eggs/DPEgg.png[/image]     [image]http://i44.photobucket.com/albums/f13/TheatreUrchin/Coffee/bean.jpg[/image]

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life, and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it, and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In the first pot, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word. In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what do you see?" "Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied. She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they got soft. She then asked her to take the egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg. Finally, she asked her to smell and sip the coffee. The daughter smiled, as she smelled and tasted its rich aroma.

The daughter then asked, "What's the point, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity- boiling water-but each reacted differently.
The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter.

"When trials and adversity knock on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?"

Think of this: Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a passive heart, but changes with the heat?
Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside, am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

Or, am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor.

If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you become better and change the situation around you.

When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate to another level?


How do you handle adversity?
Like the CARROT, the EGG, OR the COFFEE BEAN?

 
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Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/27/2008 1:22:25 AM)

Knock Knock Aardvark
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Aardvark!
Aardvark who?
Aardvark a hundred miles for one of your smiles!

Knock Knock Abe
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Abe!
Abe who?
Abe C D E F G H...!

Knock Knock Aladdin
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Aladdin!
Aladdin who?
Aladdin the street wants a word with you!

Knock Knock Ankansas
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Ankansas!
Ankansas who?
Ankansas though any piece of wood!

Knock Knock Denver
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Denver!
Denver who?
Denver the good old days!

Knock Knock Hawaii
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Hawaii!
Hawaii who?
Fine, until you knocked on the door!

Knock Knock Iowa
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Iowa!
Iowa who?
Iowa you a dollar!

 
Knock Knock Ohio
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Ohio!
Ohio who?
Ohio Silver!

Knock Knock Orange juice
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Orange juice!
Orange juice who?
Orange juice going to talk to me!


Knock Knock Summertime
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Summertime!
Summertime who?
Summertime you can be a big pest!


Knock Knock Utah
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Utah!
Utah who?
Utah told me to knock!


Knock Knock Walnuts
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Walnuts!
Walnuts who?
Walnuts around here!


Knock Knock Wooden shoe
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Wooden shoe!
Wooden shoe who?
Wooden shoe like to know!


Knock Knock Wyoming
Knock Knock
Who's there?
Wyoming!
Wyoming who?
Wyoming so mean to me!





Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/27/2008 1:53:50 AM)

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                                                "He Only Is My Rock And My Salvation:
                                                  He Is My Defence:   
                                                  I Shall Not Be Moved."
 
 
Psalm 62:6
 
 




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/27/2008 11:22:09 PM)

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   Kissing is like drinking tea
 with a tea strainer, you can
         never get enough.
 
 
Unknown Author 




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/27/2008 11:52:14 PM)

Cute cat video

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Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/28/2008 12:14:27 AM)

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If ice cream is scooped but no one is
there to eat it, does it still taste good?
 
 
 
A.J. Esther






Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/28/2008 1:00:54 AM)

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Shopping Cart Woes 
 
It was a Saturday afternoon, and Ray had rushed down to the local supermarket to hurriedly pick up some hamburger rolls, chips and a few condiments. The big college game was going to be on, so he was having a few friends over to watch it.

The store was loaded with shoppers and as he headed for the six item express lane, the only one that didn't have a long line, a woman completely ignoring the overhead sign slipped into the check-out line just in front of him pushing a cart piled high with groceries.

Ray was quietly fuming at the anticipated delay. But the cashier beckoned the woman to come forward, looked into the cart and asked ever so sweetly,
 
"So Dearie, which six items would you like to buy?"
 




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/28/2008 1:09:20 AM)

Fishing Trip
 
A friend, driving home from a fishing trip in northern Michigan with his boat in tow, had engine trouble a few miles inland from Lake Huron. He didn't have a CB radio in his car, so he decided to use his marine radio to get help. Climbing into his boat, he broadcast his call letters and asked for assistance.

A Coast Guard officer responded, "Please give your location."

"I'm on Interstate-75, two miles south of Standish."

The officer paused, "Could you repeat that?"

"I-75, two miles south of Standish."

A longer pause. Then an incredulous voice asked, "How fast were you going when you hit shore?"





Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/28/2008 1:56:49 AM)


Why Not For Man?

Where we live, on the Eastern shore of Maryland, the gentle waters run in and out like
fingers slimming at the tips. They curl into the smaller creeks and coves like tender palms.

The Canada geese know this place, as do the white swans and the ducks who ride an
inch above the waves of Chesapeake Bay as they skim their way into harbor.
In the autumn, by the thousands, they come home for the winter. The swans move
toward the shores in a stately glide, their tall heads proud and unafraid. They lower
their long necks deep into the water, where their strong beaks dig through the river
bottoms for food. And there is, between the arrogant swans and the prolific geese,
an indifference, almost a disdain.

Once or twice each year, snow and sleet move into the area. When this happens, if
the river is at its narrowest, or the creek shallow, there is a freeze which hardens the
water to ice.

It was on such a morning near Oxford, Maryland, that a friend of mine set the breakfast
table beside the huge window, which overlooked the Tred Avon River. Across the river,
beyond the dock, the snow laced the rim of the shore in white.

For a moment she stood quietly, looking at what the night's storm had painted. Suddenly
she leaned forward and peered close to the frosted window."It really is," she cried out loud,
"there is a goose out there."

She reached to the bookcase and pulled out a pair of binoculars. Into their sights came
the figure of a large Canada goose, very still, its wings folded tight to its sides, its feet
frozen to the ice.

Then from the dark skies, she saw a line of swans. They moved in their own singular
formation, graceful, intrepid, and free. They crossed from the west of the broad creek
high above the house, moving steadily to the east.

As my friend watched, the leader swung to the right, then the white string of birds became
a white circle. It floated from the top of the sky downward. At last, as easy as feathers
coming to earth, the circle landed on the ice. My friend was on her feet now, with one
unbelieving hand against her mouth. As the swans surrounded the frozen goose, she feared
what life he still had might be pecked out by those great swan bills.

Instead, amazingly instead, those bills began to work on the ice. The long necks were
lifted and curved down, again and again. It went on for a long time. At last, the goose
was rimmed by a narrow margin of ice instead of the entire creek. The swans rose again,
following the leader, and hovered in that circle, awaiting the results of their labors.

The goose's head lifted. Its body pulled. Then the goose was free and standing on the
ice. He was moving his big webbed feet slowly. And the swans stood in the air watching.

Then, as if he had cried, "I cannot fly," four of the swans came down around him. Their
powerful beaks scraped the goose's wings from top to bottom, scuttled under its wings
and rode up its body, chipping off and melting the ice held in the feathers. Slowly, as if
testing, the goose spread its wings as far as they would go, brought them together,
accordion-like, and spread again.

When at last the wings reached their fullest, the four swans took off and joined the
hovering group. They resumed their eastward journey, in perfect formation, to their
secret destination.

Behind them, rising with incredible speed and joy, the goose moved into the sky. He
followed them, flapping double time, until he caught up, until he joined the last end
of the line, like a small child at the end of a crack-the-whip of older boys.

My friend watched them until they disappeared over the tips of the farthest trees.
Only then, in the dusk, which was suddenly deep, did she realize that tears were
running down her cheeks and had been for how long she didn't know.

This is a true story. It happened. I do not try to interpret it. I just think of it in the
bad moments, and from it comes only one hopeful question:

"If so for birds, why not for man?


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ananda -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (4/28/2008 2:57:03 PM)

Dear Marie, I was very touched by the Why not man story.  Just this past Saturday my friend and I were at the Esquimalt lagoon and there were swans, Canada geese, pigeons, ducks, crows and of course seagulls all congregating around.  It was such a wonderful afternoon watching these beautiful creatures, so peaceful. So the timing of this story was just perfect for me with this memories so fresh in my mind.  Thanks again.  NAMASTE 

Jessica




Alchemist -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (5/1/2008 9:44:42 AM)


One day I sat thinking, almost in despair; a hand fell on my shoulder and a voice said reassuringly: cheer up, things could get worse. So I cheered up and, sure enough, things got worse.


~ James Hagerty




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (5/1/2008 1:32:13 PM)

Jessica your day at the lagoon is something I can picture in my mind of being there with the swans, geese and other birds. It sounds like a glorious day being a part of nature. Thank you for the thought.

God Bless
Marie




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (5/1/2008 1:46:18 PM)

Alchemist I appreciate the quote,...The older I have gotten worry has been there with responibilties as with everyone, what if things happen this way for the worse,

but on the other hand we all have been Blessed with so many people that are a gift to us in our lives, love we give and receive, and our own personal gift of our life, that give the mindset of, maybe it could get 1000X better! Faith.

The sun comes out again after the rain or from behind the clouds.

Just a thought on the quote. Thank you.

Marie




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (5/1/2008 1:53:39 PM)

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      Show me that happy face!




Marie M. -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (5/1/2008 2:13:17 PM)

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Keep a green tree in your heart and perhaps a singing bird
will come.
 

-  Chinese proverb




J1937 -> RE: Laughter and the Positive Effects (5/1/2008 2:44:19 PM)

Alchemist,

This is a quote which has been well-known over here. It is certainly witty, being a derivative, I think, of what we sometimes comfort ourselves with when in some kind of trouble: ´Things could BE worse`. Taking this seriously has often helped me see unpleasant situations in a more positive light. (I am a "child" of war). My son insists, though, that this thought offers no comfort. It seems to me that someone who has been through some really trying situations, maybe early in life, can handle adversity better if they compare it to what they have experienced before. They will find it easier to deal with than what still looms in their memory.
I wonder if this makes sense to you. Joe, what do you think of it?

Juliana
___________________________________
I cannot change the direction of the wind. But I can adjust my sails. 




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