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I miss her - 1/31/2008 3:40:29 PM   
miss you

 

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Status: offline 		I miss my patty she has been gone now 4 years
and I cnt stop missing her and Iam always crying
can anyone help me
              Patty Mom
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RE: I miss her - 1/31/2008 6:40:41 PM   
buttington

 

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Status: offline 		Dear Faye,
Welcome to the Forum. I'm so sorry you are feeling so upset about Patty. Grief takes a long time sometimes, so be patient with yourself.
Please make yourself at home here and we'll try our best to help you. I hope you will come back and share some more of your story.

Love Jude

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RE: I miss her - 1/31/2008 7:25:45 PM   
Thankful one

 

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Status: offline 		Patty's Mom,
Thanks for sharing. I wish, hope and pray that some comfort will be delivered to you to help you in this difficult time. I cannot begin to understand the loss of a child but hope that you may find some comfort here.

I lit a candle for Patty under the group Patty. I think the following link will let you see the candle here.

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Patty

Patty's Plum Perennial Poppy



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Gratitude is the acknowledgement of goodness in one's life. In gratitude we say yes to life... from Thanks - How the new science of gratitude can make you happier by Robert Emmons, Ph.D.
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RE: I miss her - 1/31/2008 10:11:40 PM   
Hildegard

 

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Status: offline 		Dear Faye, I join the others in welcoming you! You can be sure you will always find someone here happy to listen to you. As you browse through the threads in the different forums you will meet other mothers who have lost a child and understand what you are going through. I'll be glad to keep you in my prayers and light a candle for Patty and you.

With much love,
Edda

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RE: I miss her - 1/31/2008 11:08:06 PM   
Marie M.

 

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Status: offline 		Faye, welcome to the forum. I am so very sorry for your loss. I will light a candle and keep your family in my prayers. I have lost my son four years ago. I understand the pain. The generous, good hearted people here are very supportive. I speak for myself coming at a very diffucult time.

Marie
Seneca's Mom
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RE: I miss her - 2/1/2008 4:20:24 PM   
bernie

 

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From: TX
Status: offline 		The good thing about loss, 'mournful-one', is that you can resiliently bounce back w/ time - it needn't be permanent or episodic - yes, it just vanishes, floats away as you gently let go...as you release your grief you'll rebound back to normal again realizing that life is totally worth living & that your departed, loved one is where there's no pain, totally relaxed in her new celestial glory w/ God, where quintessential peace - harmony - benevolence - Divine love will abound & reign forever & ever from everlasting to Everlasting, amen.
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RE: I miss her - 2/9/2008 1:49:20 PM   
miss you

 

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Status: offline 		Thank all of you so much, what makes it so bad is she was loved
by everyone she was so young . Her husband though she was a Queen
and as a daughter none could stand up to her .She was always there
when I needed her she always a { good girl }  As a Mommy the best
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RE: I miss her - 2/9/2008 2:30:15 PM   
J1937

 

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From: Austria/Europe
Status: offline 		Dear Faye, I am going to light a candle for you and your daughter, together with my prayer that you may find comfort and peace. May little signs show you that she is near in spirit.

Love,
Juliana
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RE: I miss her - 2/9/2008 3:09:55 PM   
Hildegard

 

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Status: offline 		Dear Faye, I just lit another candle for Patty and you!

I pray for peace and comfort for you,

Much love,
Edda

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RE: I miss her - 2/23/2008 8:21:11 AM   
Vicky

 

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Status: offline 		Dearest Faye, I am so sorry for the loss of your special daughter, Patty.         I know that your heart is full of sorrow, but try to replace the sorrow with Patty's loving memories. Remember the good and happy times. Patty would not want her loving mother to be so sad. She would want you to rejoice in life.
I will pray for you and light a candle to honor your memories of Patty.
Bless you, Vicky

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RE: I miss her - 2/29/2008 6:20:41 PM   
woodyt

 

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Status: offline 		Dear Patty's mom,

    I am so sorry to hear about your dear daughter.  If you are not aware, there is a wonderful group of parents who will listen to your story and who understand the pain of the loss of a child of any age.  I am speaking of The Compassionate Friends (TCF).  I am a chapter leader for a chapter in Oregon.  I can give you information on a chapter close to you, or you can go to the national web site and look for information there.  I don't know if I can paste in the link, but if you just type in "The Compassionate Friends" you will find them.  It's possible you can also find them in your local phone directory, or you can try "211" the national information source.  Please let me know if I can provide any further information or help to you.  I will light a candle for Patty today for you.  You need not walk alone.   
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RE: I miss her - 3/4/2008 6:04:43 AM   
wakeup

 

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Status: offline 		Faye,

I am very sorry for your loss. My mom passed away 10 years ago and a big help in overcoming my grief was sitting down and writing the things that I am grateful for and when I wrote about my mom I wrote about the fact that she was  physically in my life for 34 years but still continues to live in me through what she taught me about life and through my memories of her.

Your daughter was a great mom, a Queen to her husband and the best daughter a mother could have. that is cause for celebration. her passing away causes you grief but that is such a small part of her entire life. Try to focus on the joy she brought and in time the pain will dimininsh.

My thoughts and prayers are with you

Scott

Namaskar:the divinity in me respects the divinity in you
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RE: I miss her - 9/1/2008 11:12:17 AM   
miss you

 

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Status: offline 		Scott think you soooo much and I do focus on all the
 joy she gave me.
think you again Faye
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RE: I miss her - 9/1/2008 1:05:33 PM   
Lynn

 

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From: Phillipsport, NY
Status: offline 		God Bless Angel Patty and her loving Mom and family.

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RE: I miss her - 9/3/2008 12:06:52 PM   
Gennai

 

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Status: online 		love to Patty's mom and to Angel Patty! I have lit a candle, too on the link given. You know, Patty's mom, I know you would love her with you to give her a hug, and I can't imagine loosing a child, the words though that come to mind is that she can always be there with you. There is no distance between you really, she is there in your thoughts and prayers, and I am sure she sends her love to you from the beautiful place she is in now. No matter where you are, she is with you...

In a way, when ever you think of her, you send her a gift, and she does too, to you - so when ever you think of her, think she is coming to you to give you her love, to send you a gift -


This is a very special  gift
That you can never see,
The reason why its so special
 Is it’s for you from me.
Whenever you are lonely,
Or even feeling blue,
You only have to hold this gift,
And know I think of you.
You can never open it –
Please leave the  ribbon tied,
Just hold it close to your heart
It’s filled with love inside.

Godlove
Gina and Jackoryx
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RE: I miss her - 9/4/2008 1:58:05 PM   
mamaluvskids

 

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Status: offline 		Patty's mom, I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. I'm glad you have joined this forum. Here you will find that there are many people here who have gone through what you have. I have to say that I don't know what you are going through exactly. I did lose 2 babies to miscarriages and I grieve for them, but your pain has got to me worse. I hope you will find comfort here knowing that we care for you and that whenever you need to talk we will listen. Please take care and know your in my thoughts and prayers.
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