sean

Re:sean (mamaluvskids)

Thu, 30 Jul 2009 21:51:07 GMT

Dearest Lilwings, Sean and his family still reamain in my thoughts and prayers. You knowI remember when I was a teenager in school my English teacher's oldest son had a problem with alchohol. He had tried and tried to stop and it happend that I also knew his wife and 3 kids as they went to the same church as my family. He and his wife were separated and the kids were real small. He had moved back in with his mom who was my English teacher. One day he stole their car while they were gone and he was drinking. To make a long story short he wrecked the car and now is paralyized if I am not mistaken from the neck down. I will Never forget what my English teacher said to me. She said that she would rather him be paralyed then for him to die drinking as he is not able to lift even his hands. Now today the guy is one of the most talented guy that you could ever know. He has done so very much since his accident. It happens that my piano teacher from years ago helps take care of him part time and tells me all about his changes. Maybe this guy will forever be changed and realize the strength he never had before. I sure hope he does and he will. Love ALways, Joya

Re:sean (lilsparrow)

Tue, 14 Jul 2009 07:11:30 GMT

Perhaps, dear liliwings,
Sean's spiritual journey from the life he led previously
will give him strength he doesn't even know he possesses
for the trials ahead . . .
and there will be difficult times.
Sometimes we do not know our own strength or courage
until we are tested.

Candles remain lit for this dear young man
and for his family
with love . . .
sparrow

Re:sean (liliwings)

Tue, 14 Jul 2009 00:14:05 GMT

Yes Sparrow
his mom cant stop crying when she is not with him. His aunt is so physically ill herself. And they are taking turns at the hospital so that he never has a moment alone.

The pneumonia did not respond to the antibiotics that he received. So they will start him on a differeent one. He still is in intensive care. He has not been told yet that his parallysis is severe. They dont want to tell him until the breathing is more under control. Because he will not want to live when he hears that. Of course they expect that with counselling his feelings will change. But the doctors do not want him told until he is more stable. so that he will survive the news.

Thank you all for lighting candles for him. while I do not know him, My sweeties deeply love their "host's" nephew. Very close family. Sending love and light, liliwings

Re:sean (lilsparrow)

Mon, 13 Jul 2009 09:31:34 GMT

Dear liliwings . . .
Thank you for sharing a little more of Sean and his struggles.
Gratefully,
he has received healing of the soul
and of the spirit
before this terrible thing happend.
He remains very much
in my heart and in my prayers
with love . . .
sparrow

Re:sean (liliwings)

Sun, 12 Jul 2009 13:09:15 GMT

Jude I will light another candle for him and his family now.
Thanks Jude

Sandra I will continue to hold Sean his family and his 'Mommy of heart 'in
my thoughts
Oh let me explain...... I am "mommy of the heart" to a MPD system (one of a few systems I have helped for many yesrs) whose host is aunt to Sean. Sean is the son of the host's sister.

I have never talked with Sean. although I have talked with his mom twice. Again, Sean's mom is the sister of the host of the MPD system. MPD is multiple personality disorder aka DID. Whew, I hope that was not totally confusing. I am not clarifying this just for Sandra. But for all. Because this always gets confusing for people.
Sandra, yes, you are so right !! He already has received many miracles. I think their hearts break because finally he found a life free of crime and then this. But then again, I always come back to knowing that I do not know the higher plan for any soul. Nor would I with good reason, judge it as good, bad, or otherwise. Judging the creation and destruction in any given situation just shows my lack of deepest of understanding. And thats alright. I am not evolved enough to go to the deepest places of understanding any soul's journey. I have heard that even Jesus cries. So even with depth of understanding, we stlll can cry for the suffering. Yes.

Edda We are not strangers, but all one human family caring for each other!
Yes. And I pray for the eay that many more people will feel this truth. I will pass your message along to my sweeties.
I'll keep Sean and all who love him in my prayers!
Thank you. I will pass that along also. I do so like the idea of sending the candle group link to people we light candles for. What a great gift to give in the right circumstance. The power of the internet. where humankind uses technology for good and right purpose. To gather in the name of light and love.

Bless us all. love, liliwings

Re:sean (Hildegard)

Sun, 12 Jul 2009 10:08:29 GMT

Dear Liliwings,

Thank you for telling us more about Sean!
We are not strangers, but all one human family caring for each other!

I'll keep Sean and all who love him in my prayers!

Much love to you,
Edda

Re:sean (sandra67)

Sun, 12 Jul 2009 07:26:37 GMT

Dearest Liliwings

he can blink his eyes. Three times if he is in pain

this alone sounds like his many prayers have been
answered.

Reading your words it seems this young man has
recieved many miracles bless him.May he recieve
many more ...

I will continue to hold Sean his family and his 'Mommy of heart 'in
my thoughts .

Take care Liliwings love ,Me xx

Re:sean (buttington)

Sun, 12 Jul 2009 04:59:24 GMT

Dear Liliwings,
Thank you for the update on Sean. I will light another candle for him and his family now.

Love Nd lessings,
Jude

Re:sean (liliwings)

Sun, 12 Jul 2009 02:55:11 GMT

Thank you all,
so very much. I sent the link to my sweeties. and the one who is reading all the messages and candles is so very very deeply touched. Sean has deveolped pneumonia. I guess from the ventelator. He sometimes can breathe a bit on his own. But cannot move. he can blink his eyes. Three times if he is in pain.

They want to thank all of you for your kindness you have shown for Sean and the family. The little 6 year old girl asked if you could light more over time. because this is going to be long. She said that when they told him they love him he cried and tried to blow them a kiss. But he really couldnt.

Sean spent manyyyyyy years in trouble with the law. He had just gotten his life straightned out. It truely was a miracle that this happened. when he was released from prison the last time he was drug free.  Instead of going back on the drugs and ending up back in prison as before, "he found a job he loved" and a girlfriend who he was in a devoted relationship with. It was like a miracle.

Then he was shot. His mother went from deep gratitude and relief that her son had reclaimed his life, to being at the hospital all the time of course.   So you can see how deeply sad they felt when he tried to blow a kiss and and then just cried.

They are a very close family. So my sweeties will be relieving their sister at the hospital often so she can go home and take care of her other chidlren including a 4 year old. They do not want to leave him alone at the hospital.

Thank you for the beautiful messages and candles. They feel very touched that you all care. They could not believe that strangers would care that much.    Thank you all. love, liliwings

Re:sean (liliwings)

Sat, 11 Jul 2009 23:32:50 GMT

Thank you all,
I must say that my sweeties have not contacted me today to say what Sean's conditon is. Either if he is still here, on a ventelator, or passed on. I have made calls, But did not receive word back yet.

Thank you all for your prayers, words and candles. I know that my sweeties will appreciate it greatly, and Sean's mom also. I am understanding more these days to appreciate each moment. Because we do not know what the next moment will bring. With love and gratefulness, liliwings

Re:sean (mamaluvskids)

Sat, 11 Jul 2009 20:52:54 GMT

Dearest Lilwings, I am so sorry to hear about Sean. I will certainly light a candle for him and his family. My heart goes out to all of them. I have also thought about you too Lilwings. You also remain close to my heart.
Love ALways, Joya

Re:sean (dancingdolphin)

Sat, 11 Jul 2009 07:10:56 GMT

hi liliwings. i will be thinking of you, Sean and his family.

and i am just going to light a candle.

may all of you be gentle to yourselves at this really hard time.

Re:sean (lilsparrow)

Sat, 11 Jul 2009 06:57:48 GMT

Life changes in an instant

indeed it can . . .
which reminds us to appreciate every moment
with love . . .
sparrow

Re:sean (J1937)

Fri, 10 Jul 2009 17:06:50 GMT

I am also going to light a candle with my prayer for Sean and his family. My heart goes out to them

Juliana

Re:sean (bm)

Fri, 10 Jul 2009 16:39:02 GMT

Dear Liliwings,
I am so sorry ,too.
I have lit a candle for hope and strength
for Sean and his family...
~with regards and love to you~
Buba,Goran's mom

Re:sean (sandra67)

Fri, 10 Jul 2009 16:32:32 GMT

Oh Dear me Lilwings I am so sorry to hear such sad news.

Of course I will light a candle my friend for Sean ,you and the rest of
his family.

I will never understand why such violence is in this world not ever.

Love and massive hugs Liliwings,Sandra xxxxx

Re:sean (liliwings)

Fri, 10 Jul 2009 12:36:40 GMT

Thanks Jude Sparrow and Edda. I will pass along your kind thoughts. When I offered to make this request she was very glad. Of course I got permission to use his entire name.

It alwasy breaks my heart to hear of such. Life changes in an instant, for many people, each day. Sending love and thanks liliwings

Re:sean (Hildegard)

Fri, 10 Jul 2009 10:56:38 GMT

Dear Liliwings,

I am saddened to hear another story of a shooting! My heart goe out to Sean and his family. I will light a candle for them and keep them in my prayers.

Love,
Edda

Re:sean (lilsparrow)

Fri, 10 Jul 2009 08:31:45 GMT

I am so sorry to hear this news
dear liliwings . . .
a candle has been lit
for Sean
and for his family.
Sometimes it is hard for us to see
the bigger picture
with love . . .
sparrow

Re:sean (buttington)

Fri, 10 Jul 2009 07:21:38 GMT

Dear Liliwings,
This is indeed a very sad story. I will be glad to light a candle for Sean and his family.

Love,
Jude