I miss him.

Re:I miss him. (dancingdolphin)

Fri, 16 Oct 2009 14:38:03 GMT

hi Heather.

im so very sorry for your loss. and i understand about the little things that pop up and 'sting' you when you are least expecting it. treat yourself very gently and know you can always come back here and share some more about Jackson with us. im glad also because you have someone, Margaret, who really knows alot about where you are at from losing her son. know we are here for you. keep talking as you need and want to.

with caring prayers

dancing dolphin

Re:I miss him. (Hildegard)

Tue, 13 Oct 2009 08:32:39 GMT

Dear Heather,

I join Jude and Sparrow in welcoming you!

I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you as you grieve Jackson, your boy friend. You lose track of time, when you are grieving. Your loss is so fresh and yet it may seem like a long time of feeling the deep pain.

I keep you in my prayers and will light a candle for you in the ALL group.

With much love,
Edda

Re:I miss him. (lilsparrow)

Tue, 13 Oct 2009 07:29:25 GMT

Dear Heather . . .
It seems that you already have a friend here on the forum . . .
Margaret, Jackson's mom?
I am happy that you both have found this place,
and pray that you both find healing.
Two months is both a 'blink'
and an eternity . . .
sometimes it helps to share.
When you feel up to it,
perhaps you will come back
and tell us a little of the love and gratitude you feel
for having Jackson in your life.
You are so welcome here
with love . . .
sparrow

Re:I miss him. (buttington)

Tue, 13 Oct 2009 05:09:52 GMT

Welcome to the Forum dear Heather.
My heart goes out to you in your loss. As you say, 2 months is a blink. You need time to allow the grief, and hard to believe now, but time will help.
Do come back here and talk to us some more when you feel you'd like to.

I'll light a candle for you and Jackson and his family and all who loved him.

Blessings,
Jude

I miss him. (Cassidy83)

Tue, 13 Oct 2009 00:37:02 GMT

My boyfriend passed almost 2 months ago. I still don't believe that it's true- I will never touch him ever again, it's hard to grasp. It comes in waves. For awhile I'll be ok- and then the small things slap me in the face all over again. Seeing things he liked and didn't like, clothes he wore, remembering jokes he would make, songs he would listen to....the food he craved and the stuff he wouldn't touch.
His mom once said to me that it felt like "it happened so long ago"....It's only been two months and I think she's right- but two months is a blink...How will I feel in 4months-6-8- a year? I will try to focus on being grateful that I had the time I did with Jackson but I really miss him. A lot.